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- Tifabelle, Nathan Drake, Locke Cole, Kain Highwind, Yamcha, Arya Stark
Sigh. Once again, I find the mods' handling of a situation less than satisfactory. The problem with Misty/Yoshi has been ongoing for several months. In fact, it was brought to the attention of the mods MONTHS ago. And promises were made that next time something happened, it would be dealt with.
Everyone went on ignoring Misty as per the mods' request. EVEN THOUGH she continued to post messages to Tiff and stalk her (both here and on tumblr).
Two days ago, she made a post on Tiff's profile acting concerned for her well being (which I call bullshit on, but w/e). Tiff responded that she appreciated the concern but she wasn't interested in being friends with her. Then Misty responds by cursing at her and flipping out. That message was reported by two people almost immediately after it happened. Nothing was done about it. And I'd like to remind the mods that they promised to respond to each and every reported post after all that bullshit with Ryu. My how quickly we forget.
So this shit spills onto tumblr where Misty continues to curse and call Tiff names. Several people asked her to leave Tiff alone. One person was even sending her very kind messages to her, which she stopped responding to. She deleted everything. Then comes back on TLS and the first post she makes is in Tiff's art thread saying how great her drawing is. Well certainly you can understand people's reactions to this pretense.
Then she makes a thread on CxA where Tiff can't defend herself. So Tiff wanted to rant about it here in the Ruins Your Day thread. She didn't mention anyone by name. I had agreed with Tiff's post. And Quex had linked to the thread in question. Some of our members commented on it, and I attempted to explain why we had reacted that way in Tiff's art thread.
So how do the mods choose to handle this situation? Well Road can't be bothered reading tl;dr posts. Force claims that by the time it gets to the mods, it's resolved itself even though that's not true because this shit was brought to their attention two days ago (and might I add is an ongoing problem). So the answer is to just infract everyone instead of actually resolving the problem. If the mods had handled this two days ago when the first message was reported, you wouldn't have a clusterfuck on your hands. And don't tell me not to bring outside drama to TLS. This all started on TLS and spilled elsewhere on the internet because you completely fail at handling the situation here. You waited until it exploded, then took the lazy way out by just handing out infractions like candy. All because you couldn't be bothered to actually look into and deal with what the actual problem is. And Road even admitted that Misty's reaction to Tiff's request was harassment, and yet nothing was done about it. Even though it was reported two days ago.
Misty has made promises in the past to ignore Tiff, and move on, but she never does. This is an endless cycle of bullshit that you allow to continue. Stop making promises of "next time, next time" because this has happened too many times and you always say "next time". She has been REPEATEDLY asked by several people to leave Tiff alone, and continues to message her. Tiff asks her to leave her alone and ignores her, but it continues to happen.
Honestly, your answer is just to infract a bunch of people and move on. And btw, my post was edited without even telling me. But Misty's wasn't edited to remove the CxA stuff, and neither was Quex's. She's allowed to harass and bother Tiff, nothing is done, then you act surprised when it explodes. When you fail to take appropriate action to actually solve the problem, it will only keep happening and people are going to react negatively. The way this whole thing was handled seems unfair and haphazard.
Everyone went on ignoring Misty as per the mods' request. EVEN THOUGH she continued to post messages to Tiff and stalk her (both here and on tumblr).
Two days ago, she made a post on Tiff's profile acting concerned for her well being (which I call bullshit on, but w/e). Tiff responded that she appreciated the concern but she wasn't interested in being friends with her. Then Misty responds by cursing at her and flipping out. That message was reported by two people almost immediately after it happened. Nothing was done about it. And I'd like to remind the mods that they promised to respond to each and every reported post after all that bullshit with Ryu. My how quickly we forget.
So this shit spills onto tumblr where Misty continues to curse and call Tiff names. Several people asked her to leave Tiff alone. One person was even sending her very kind messages to her, which she stopped responding to. She deleted everything. Then comes back on TLS and the first post she makes is in Tiff's art thread saying how great her drawing is. Well certainly you can understand people's reactions to this pretense.
Then she makes a thread on CxA where Tiff can't defend herself. So Tiff wanted to rant about it here in the Ruins Your Day thread. She didn't mention anyone by name. I had agreed with Tiff's post. And Quex had linked to the thread in question. Some of our members commented on it, and I attempted to explain why we had reacted that way in Tiff's art thread.
So how do the mods choose to handle this situation? Well Road can't be bothered reading tl;dr posts. Force claims that by the time it gets to the mods, it's resolved itself even though that's not true because this shit was brought to their attention two days ago (and might I add is an ongoing problem). So the answer is to just infract everyone instead of actually resolving the problem. If the mods had handled this two days ago when the first message was reported, you wouldn't have a clusterfuck on your hands. And don't tell me not to bring outside drama to TLS. This all started on TLS and spilled elsewhere on the internet because you completely fail at handling the situation here. You waited until it exploded, then took the lazy way out by just handing out infractions like candy. All because you couldn't be bothered to actually look into and deal with what the actual problem is. And Road even admitted that Misty's reaction to Tiff's request was harassment, and yet nothing was done about it. Even though it was reported two days ago.
Misty has made promises in the past to ignore Tiff, and move on, but she never does. This is an endless cycle of bullshit that you allow to continue. Stop making promises of "next time, next time" because this has happened too many times and you always say "next time". She has been REPEATEDLY asked by several people to leave Tiff alone, and continues to message her. Tiff asks her to leave her alone and ignores her, but it continues to happen.
Honestly, your answer is just to infract a bunch of people and move on. And btw, my post was edited without even telling me. But Misty's wasn't edited to remove the CxA stuff, and neither was Quex's. She's allowed to harass and bother Tiff, nothing is done, then you act surprised when it explodes. When you fail to take appropriate action to actually solve the problem, it will only keep happening and people are going to react negatively. The way this whole thing was handled seems unfair and haphazard.