Eerie
Fire and Blood
Aerith in her Remake resolution is an Aerith who was pulled from the Lifestream, so dead.I realized while replaying last night that dream date Aerith may actually be an Aerith who escaped her fate like Zack did. It would explain why they're in such similar worlds but can't actually meet yet. When the black feather rains down from the sky during the date w/ Cloud in S5, Sephiroth says, "So this is where you've been hiding... In a world that has already accepted it's fate, just as you must." This line tells us a lot:
1. He's been searching for her, it's why we see him cross through Zack's world but she's not there obviously.
2. She's been actively hiding from him in these worlds and hasn't "accepted" her fate yet which means this Aerith hasn't died yet
This is a rather good explanation for why the devs refer to her as "an Aerith who is closest to the future" and not an Aerith who has already died. If she's in a similar predicament to Zack and living in some sort of limbo, this could be why her feelings are so stagnant and she's so confused because she literally cannot move forward at all.
Assuming dream date Aerith and resolution scene Aerith are the same (which seems to be the case), she's ruminating on the fact that she may have escaped death but she's lonelier than she's ever been before. "Everyone dies eventually..." may be her thinking that dying wouldn't have been so bad in the end if this is the only alternative.
Now as @Biscuit brought up a few pages back, the dream date could have actually happened before the resolution scene for this Aerith as in Rebirth, she's pondering on her feelings for Cloud but in Remake she seems rather sure that any romantic feelings between them aren't real at all and is reminding herself of this fact.
I actually thought of her being dream date Aerith (before going to her resolution scene) but I’m not sure they actually match tbh. To me she looks more like our Aerith once dead. Like she too needs closure, not only this Aerith we know nothing about. It’s honestly a big disconnect to me because I’m not sure how I should care about this Aerith, all she did was create confusion and many fans hated what she did there. It just does look like a CA fanservice scene that ends badly, for all I know. Or it’s just a scene to explain Cloud’s feelings (since again this Aerith’s feelings, IDK why I should care if they have no bearing on our Aerith), to point out that Cloud’s feelings are platonic since there’s this big weird scene happening as our Aerith dies.
I just think overall it did a disservice to Aerith’s character and I say that as I am 100% persuaded that it’s that scene that made my husband dislike her so strongly.