Radiohead?!
but then The Zep
Are all Radiohead song utterly miserable? Can you recommend any upbeat and light hearted songs of theirs? or does this not exist?
Ok, fine, yeah, most of Radiohead's stuff is utterly miserable, but I love it SO MUCH. Probably too much, because I love listening to it, but when I do, it starts to drag me down <_< I literally just went through all of their songs, hoping I could find one that is upbeat so I could go A-HA!!!....but such a song does not exist.
I'm curious how the three way love in you guys have going on works.
Is it a long term relationship or are you guys seeing how it goes?
How did you come to acceptable borders that everyone agreed to?
Would you include anyone else? (presumably if all were agreeable.. or would that complicate things?)
What qualities do you guys have that makes this work?
Is the feeling between Micah and Force towards each other the same as their feelings towards you?
If two have a disagreement, what does the third do? (as in gang up, referee, stay outta it, something else?)
If one person wanted to leave the relationship, could the two maintain the relationship or would something be missing? - i'm not sure that's a very fair question.... if you're not comfy answering, please do just skip. I'm all for communal love, just never seen it work outside my head
Disclaimer: I realize that I'm going to probably end up saying things in Force's place, so hey, Force, if you have anything to add or if you want to clarify something that I say, feel free to comment.
Well, Force and I have been dating for about 3 years now, so it's kind of become a long term thing, but I don't know if we would have seen it going s long if you had asked when it started. As for its continuance, it's just kind of a "see how it goes" thing, I guess (see further in my answer). As for borders...there kind of aren't any? We all just seem to trust each other's judgement. I would love to include another lady within our little group, someone who would be Force's "primary", but I don't think that's necessarily something that anyone is seeking out right now, because the idea of finding someone who would be ok with that right off the bat (and just keeping it between the four of us, especially, as that is the only way that Force would be ok with it) seems rather daunting, especially from Force's perspective. I just think of us as a family unit, and would love to add another family member, if that makes sense. Love and stuff!
Micah and Force are both extremely laid back, and neither of them are jealous people, which is really the only way I think that something like this could work. They're also best friends, and love hanging out themselves, and there's never been any type of competitive feelings between them, as kids or now.
No, Micah and Force are both straight as arrows, haha. They certainly love each other deeply, but there is absolutely no romantic feeling between them.
Micah and I hardly argue. There have only been a couple of times throughout our relationship that I've even been really mad at him. John and I are a little more argumentative, but that's because he's super stubborn and sometimes our methods of communicating don't mesh well, so we end up arguing, often over things that are just misunderstandings. In either case, I might vent a little to the other person, and they'll listen, maybe say a few objective things, help me understand the situation from a more objective point of view, but they never gang up on each other. They're always constructive. They will admit when the other person has messed up or is being a jerk, but they don't go and say something to each other about it then. They let me work whatever it is out with each of them individually, for the most part.
The only person who would leave the relationship would be Force, as he does want to find someone he can settle down with, and he's willing to sacrifice our romantic relationship to do so if he has to. Say, if he finds a lady he's really into, but she's really not ok with him also dating me. He says that as long as she's ok with him remaining my best friend, and meshes well with the three of us as friends and there aren't any issues with us hanging out and stuff, he would be ok with suspending our romantic relationship. If that were to happen, Micah and I would of course continue on, as he is my husband (of 6 years
) and we don't rely on the relationship dynamic that I also happen to have with Force. It will likely break my heart if/when Force ends things, but as long as we remain best friends, I think that we'll be ok, and that I will recover.
Les aloes tu c'est avec, c'est un prenom tres bien. J'aime
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Are you a morning or night person?
Definitely a night person. Well, make that a late evening person, haha.
Honestly, I think I am, to some degree. I like to look good, I like to feel like I look good, and part of that is liking that other people think I look good.
To high heel or not to high heel?
Depends on my plans for the night, i.e. how far I'm planning to walk
Typically I'll go with flats, because comfort, but also because I kind of really like how short I am. I am, however, planning to wear heels tomorrow to my birthday dinner
What position do you go to sleep in?
Generally on my back or my side, depending on if I'm cuddling with someone or not. I love being the big spoon, but I also like lying on my back while someone curls up to me in almost a spooning position themselves, half draped over me.