Have you ever done burlesque? would you and how fa would/did you go?
If you mean the sexy kind, well, sort of. I did that sexy photo session a few years ago. I still have the CD with the hundreds of pictures on it. One of the best times of my life!
If you want, I can produce more of these, but I think there’s a number around here as well.
People might think that I was doing that for vanity, and there’s certainly some of that, but beyond that there are some personal reasons I did that which I won’t get into here. I can only say that it was the best kind of “revenge” I could have had against an ex.
^_-
How far do you go when it comes to dominating? The whole cum when I snap my fingers or is it more on a fun level?
Depends on the day and my mood. Some days I like to be “All Business and the Mistress”, but other days I like to just play it up with a fun, flirty tone. Some days the whips and chains come out and other days it's simply a silk tie.
Would you ever do domination professionally?
At this age? No. I feel too old and have too many things planned for my future. But when I was younger? Yeah, I’d definitely have considered it. I was considering being a stripper when I was a younger, but I knew my family would shit bricks if I did it and I was concerned that I wouldn’t be safe. I also found that they like tall strippers. xD
HAve you ever travelled outside Canada? Where did you / would you go?
Yes, a handful of times. I went to the US a few times and to the Carribean. I must say, I do enjoy travelling! As for the future, well, I’d love to go to England (I have some friends there), Germany (the hubby has some family there), Japan (can you imagine the sushi?!), New Zealand (I heard it’s beautiful), and Aussieland (‘cause, you know…reasons…lol).
Do you realise just how alluring and sexy you are?
Wait, what? I know how this sounds, but I don’t really think of myself that way anymore. I mean, from time to time, I think “well, possibly” but I don’t know whether it’s modesty or low self-esteem that keeps me from thinking that too often.
When are you going to have kids? If ever someone was ready to have kids, it's you my dear. Or are kids off the cards.... if they are off the cards, change your mind damnit!
Kids are not off the table, but they are sadly postponed. Between my mental state and the economic uncertainty, kids just wouldn’t be smart right about now. I don’t believe in “kids just happen” – although I understand that accidents do happen, I plan to be as smart as possible about this.
How's the studying going?
Very well. Although I lack the confidence to be more productive in it, the effort I do put into the courses has yielded some nice results. I’m getting mostly As with a few Bs, and I hope to have my designation completed in a year. Same for the creative writing certificate.
Will you go on to do more in the way of research or something? Or are you happy with the courses you are doing?
Oh, yes, as I said, I definitely intend to keep going. I imagine as my life progresses I won’t have as much time as I do now, but if I’m able, I’ll be learning for years to come - I plan to be a lifelong learner!
What's your favourite alcoholic drink?
*points up to my first post* All the girly drinks, mostly. I can do shots, but I’m a light-weight, tbh. I’ll be the first drunk under the table. xD
How do you stay so damn sane when madness is all around you?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_fuLOU2s3c
Would you like to do more writing, in what capacity?
Oh, hellz yeah. I’m almost always writing, tbh. Currently on my novel, “A Good Soldier”, which, considering some of what I’m facing lately, really resonates with me. I’ve been writing for twenty years now and I don’t see it changing any time soon.
I use some of my writing skills in my job with composing and editing documents. I also plan to publish a novel someday, even though I imagine that will be a long process. But if there’s one thing I’ve always known with writing – it’s the journey, not the destination.
Do you believe in God or any of that stuff?
I’m atheist. As I child I believed in God, but certain, personal things changed my mind. I went on to believe in reincarnation of all things, since the idea of going from heaven to just death was too hard on my young mind. But after a while, I decided that I simply didn’t know and become agnostic. Recently I’ve given up entirely on the idea of any real supernatural phenomena known as “God”. That said, I’m generally respectful of those who do, so long as they don’t proselytize or indoctrinate anyone else.
Do you like a lot or a little butter on your toast?
I use to like only a little but now I love a lot!
Also, for all the Archer fans out there: OMG MILTON! <3
What is something you eat that is unusual? (EG cheese and jam sandwiches - yum!)
Tomato sandwiches. Toast, butter, tomatoes. That’s it. ONONOMONOM!
Oh, and I eat whipped cream right from the can. That’s right, biatches, right from the can!
What's the longest time you've gone without Mr Dawn? Did you miss him? How did you feel?
Since we started living together, you mean? Four days, I think. It wasn’t too bad since I was busy at work and we talked on the phone fairly regularly. I’m also extremely accustomed to being physically distant from people I’m in a relationship with (aka LDRs), but at the same time, I admit I did miss him.
I once tried to think of life without him and it was just one black hole of despair. I guess I’m hopelessly in love. xD
Would you say your relationship with Mr Dawn is the 'he's my best friend, everything is easy' type, or the 'you have to work at relationships, compromise and communication is king' type?
I would say that it’s both…no, seriously, that’s the truth. Most of our life together is easy with almost anything in relation to ourselves. Outside things (e.g. families, etc.) cause us to have to come together and work on solutions and come to a compromise. If it were only us, I’d say we’d almost never argue and certainly never fight, but life tends to throw shit bricks so we can’t just sail through. Life can be hard work.
The good thing is, as my father-in-law said, we don’t fight dirty – we don’t use personal attacks; we don’t aim to be right, but rather aim for a solution; and we care about each other. I think a lot of people get into relationships with the idea of winning all the time, but that’s the wrong attitude. Relationships should be partnerships (or multi-ships, whatever works for the people involved) where the idea is to collaborate, not compete.
For most of it, yes. At two separate points (in which I had been late taking my meds), I felt some anxiety and depression, but afterwards I recovered.
Incidentally, this weekend the hubby and I went out to the mountains and it was spectacular! We had one of the best times ever. Dining. Boat rides. Shopping. Sight-seeing. Etc.
If you had a cocktail named after you, what would it consist of?
Whatever would create a drink that looks like a sunrise. Oh, and failing that, whipped cream + coffee + vodka = ONOMONOM!
Are you confident using condoms?
Been using them for years and years and they’ve never failed me, so yes. I only had one accident and that wasn’t the condom’s fault – I got a little “over-excited” and the condom rolled up.
Lawl @ me
What do you use your phone most for? (EG mine is alarm clock, calculator and on rare occasion a phone call, rarer still a text!)
Mostly:
-Skype
-TLS
-Facebook
-Gmail
-Youtube
-Unversity
-Messaging
-Occasional phone call
What is your comfort food?
S’mores frappy (lol, frappy), beef jerky (lol, jerky), candy cane hot chocolate, and pickled artichoke. MMMMMM!
What is the oddest food you've eaten? Are you generally adventurous?
Because I came from backwaters eastern Canadaland, I wasn’t initially very adventurous with my palate. But my husband’s career/hobby is in cooking, so naturally he got me into a lot of things. I will say, though, that the strangest food I ever ate was not at his behest, but my own sense of fun: bbq’d eel. Tasted like chicken!
If you came to the UK, what would you like to do/see?
Although I’m estranged from much of my family at present time, I still would like to find Wilkenshire, or whatever it was that my ancestors originated from. I also would love to meet some of the people I know who live there and to tour the countryside. Because I’m such a fan of historical dramas, castles, and medieval history, Europe would present the perfect opportunity to learn more for my novels or even just for my personal pleasure.
If you had to wear a garland of flowers in your hair, what would the flowers be?
I wasn’t sure initially, so I took a little tour of this website:
http://www.flowermuse.com/types-of-flowers.html
To be honest, I keep going back to baby’s breath. Maybe that’s because that was what was in my hair for my prom, but also, they are such beautiful flowers. I love the color of white; it’s a great duality with a black dress.
Can you rollerskate / ice skate?
Do you mean can I fall down often? In that case, yes. If not, nope. xD
What's a cool thing about living in Canada?
A cool thing about living in Canada…A
cool thing about living in Canada. LOL
I’d say my favorite thing, if that counts, is how laid back Canadian’s generally are. We don’t normally give a shit that would cause a lot other folks to start freaking the fuck out.
Also, the below:
http://www.todaysparent.com/family/activities/10-funny-facts-about-canada/
Recently, Canada has kind of sucked ass because of the government, but it’s still not a bad country when I think about it. It’s certainly better than some other countries. It could really stand to improve a lot of things, but at the same time, I’m glad to be here…sometimes. xD
Feel free to skip over any questions you don't want to answer