IMO, you're better off without the grief that your extended family have caused Gem.
Glad to see things are picking up, it was a lovely surprise to see you on Skype the other night (seems ages ago now, it's been a long week).
Come back soon!
Great to have you back, Gem. Even better to hear your gran's doing well! Sorry to hear about your family shit, but family can be shit when they want to be.