So yes, X told me I should post since I'd started playing.
Started a wanderer, mostly on the basic that he starts with a scimitar and thats niffty, no complaints with the class thus far, got slightly better armor from the Dregling Merchant which has helped, still using mostly the curved sword, my alt is a spear right now. I tend to use both 1h with a shield, and after watching my brother, I exploit the bow for all its worth.
As such, I've killed the bosses in 1-1/2 and 2-1, killed the red dragon in 1-2 with the 1-1 boss being the only one I meleed, as its before you get the bow. Kinda feel like I'm looking stuff up online to much, I'm afraid of it ruining my game experience in some ways.
But at the same time there the unasked for pvp. Makes me feel like I'm not looking online to min/max enough.
My thought is that I would like to be able to play online passively, see/leave messages, bloodstains, I think thats fun, blue phantoms seem useful, but today I had my first experience with a black phantom, oh my god.
OHMYGODRAAAGE
So! At the start of 2-2, had explored a bit, messed up a crystal lizard, and reset the level to get it right, so I was near the entrance when I got invaded. Thought, 'Ok I got this, I've pvped before in other games, not gonna take this lying down, I'll just wait for him, and try to blitz him down, have a little fun, learn something, he shouldn't be that good at this soul level'
Stood around a corner where I could twist my view to watch the approach, saw him block out the light, and knew he was coming. He ran right into my trap and I managed to jump him, get some good hits in, traded blows a bit was feeling ok. Then he switches to the Scraping Spear. (this already means he's further than me as its a demon soul weapon and you have to kill the 2-2 boss to get at those)
With it you can:
A) Attack while guarding, being that its a spear, which makes it hard already, as the curved swords don't have a guard break shove attack and...
B) the best part. It does fucking damage to your durability. Even if you guard.
So within a few hits he destroys my main weapon. I'm now freaking out, I don't know whats happening, and I start playing bad, trying to think. He proceeds to then break my shield, backup weapon, and all my armor, and kill me. So I now have no souls, am dead, and have to try to get back to my 5000 or souls I had on me with a broken weapon, no shield and essentially no armor. While I did managed to do, 13dmg at a time. Even after that I have to stop progressing and farm for a while, as my final bill just to repair it all was over 13,000 souls. I don't think I've ever been that angry at a game.
When I looked online and saw what the spear did, and what had happened, I couldn't believe it. I literally cannot imagine why they would put something that did that in a pvp game where you lose your money upon dying, and therefore can't repair anything.... and you need to be repair your gear to able to fight to ... get your money back... to repair your stuff.... *RAGE*
And really if you were likely to run into people actually on the same part of the learning curve as you were on, it would be alright, but thats hard to control and there's always those min/maxing assholes out there that make it so hard to just find regular ass people to play with. And they're the ones how stay around games, so given how long its been out, thats most of what's likely to be left *sigh*
*guh* venting!
But I'll probably just keep playing, as much as body form being partially detrimental annoys me, its a fun game, and at least if I get better I can maybe be a prick and do the same thing to some other poor soul.