My headcanons are all over the place. Sometimes they're quite serious, and other times I just think things are funny. Eg, to us Thorin, Kili and Fili are attractive, but to dwarves they think 'ewww - must be the result royal inbreeding that!'
But I guess that's what I like about it all, the chance to subvert stuff. Plus from a fanart pov, I've grown pretty sick of drawing (or trying to draw) pneumatic boobed, wasp waisted, superwomen types. Like I admire it, but at the same time it sort of makes me unhappy that I'm basically contributing to/reinforcing 'conventional beauty standards'.
I have this sort-of head canon in which Kili actually thinks Tauriel is quite ugly, but he's increasingly attracted to her spirit which seems very dwarf-like to him (i.e., less selfish and arrogant than most elves, and much more comradely). It's like she's different but she's also the same. Plus, she's willing to listen to his stories. And she saved his life twice. I feel like dwarves are less concerned about the surface of things than elves; they can see through the skin of the rock to what lies beneath.
I like that. I can't make up my mind about whether or not Kili and his cheeky flirty attitude is a front and he's really an inexperienced little virgin OR (and for dirty reasons I lean more towards this
) he's actually a naughty little scamp who got up to all sorts of things en route to the Shire
Either way, I don't think either Kili or Tauriel have ever been in Love. I think Tauriel has a thing for Legolas, but its all tangled up with a sense of duty, with wanting approval and being the best and stuff. Legolas probably does love her in his way, but deep down knows it could never happen, and can't bring himself to cut her out of his life/distance himself from her accordingly. So the poor sod sort of lives in this torturous limbo.
Right now Oin's gf looks like pope Jean Paul II according to Mr Octo
I shall have to come back to it tomorrow, but now I have to go to stupid bed