This is what I said to my FC:
"I mean, I like XIV. I really do. It's a really fun game. I like running things with you guys. Especially stuff that is new to me, even while it is old hat to you guys. But I've never been the type of MMO player who plays the content until it's dead. I guess I'm not a true MMO gamer. I CBA with the ridiculous grind to get the best weapon. I never got my zeta weapon. I know that might make me a weaker link as far as the FC and raiding goes, but I play the game to enjoy the game. Having to spend a zillion hours grinding to get the BEST weapon when the normal weapon drops will get me through is silly to me. I understand why that might be an issue to serious raiders, and I understand why that might get me kicked out of a "serious raiding" FC, but I just honestly CBA to spend that much time grinding when I have other things that more fervently hold my attention. I love being a healer. I love going through end game content with you guys, once I'm able to. But I don't feel like I should feel inadequate if I don't devote months of my evenings to grinding for one weapon in order to be THE BEST. And honestly, I don't feel that way! You guys have always been accommodating and understanding when I'm far behind in ilvl and content. But anyway. When the only thing left to do in the game that I haven't yet done is grind for a zillion hours to get a weapon that I don't really need, I consider dropping my sub. Obviously I'm not at that point yet, as I haven't even been able to run Void, but that time seems to be soon approaching. I can't justify spending $15 a month to do something that I don't honestly find rewarding when I can be making a dent in my ridiculous backlog of games.
tl/dr, I love XIV, I love it with you guys, but I don't love grinding for shit that frankly seems unnecessary for a more casual gamer like me when I could be playing other games. Love the story, love the dungeons/raids, but not enough to do them over and over and over and over and over and pay to do it."