AVALANCHE is moar than just Barret and crew, it's all 9 protagonists as well as Biggs, Wedge, and Jessie.
And in regards to the pretty boy factor, as far as FF protagonists go, Cloud is one of the least pretty, especially when compared to Cecil, Tidus, or Vaan. And while a lot of you might say Tidus or Vaan, I'm going to have to say that Cecil is the prettiest male FF protagonist. He even wears lipstick and nail polish for fuck's sake! The only thing pretty about Cloud is his face. His hair isn't pretty, though not really manly either. It is gravity defying though. And the rest of his body is slightly muscular, and muscles are certainly manly. Sort of like with Sephiroth, who has a pretty face and long, pretty hair, but the rest of his body is all mighty, muscular, manliness.
And back on topic, the first time I played the game, I thought Rufus died when he got shot with the cannon. It wasn't 'til I watched Advent Children shortly after beating FFVIII that I learned he lived. But I'm sure it was that way for most of us.