Considering how she’s done it again and again since, yeah, total queer baiting.
What does that have to do with anything? My intention was not to start a conversation about Harry Potter or J.K. Rowling, but rather to talk about people's knee-jerk reactions to the initial reveal that Dumbledore was gay. Whatever she's done with this franchise since is quite frankly irrelevant to the point I was trying to make.
The book is from the children’s perspectives, and none of the teachers’ romantic lives are mentioned except plot-relevant Snape.
Which is why none of it is mentioned in the books and why it wasn't brought up until she was asked about it some time later. Again, the point was that no one would have had such a negative reaction had she said he had an ex-wife or had an on-off relationship with an unnamed female colleague. And this is a problem.
It’s set in the 1990s when being an out teacher would have gotten you fired pretty much.
Not to dwell too long on this subject, but he was the Headmaster of Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry. I think we can allow for some suspension of disbelief here.
Regarding “normative” I am fully okay with assuming everyone is straight, monogamous, and medium height/build unless being told explicitly. I mean, that is most people, and it gets mega boring to read that over and over, and the alternative is to overwhelm your reader with more queer-and-out characters than a Gilbert & Sullivan Convention which... isn’t realistic, or else don’t bring it up and erase their queerness (and the representation) which defeats the point.
I am less okay with assuming every character is male and white so if we could make that more explicit in books we’ll probably start seeing a lot more race/gender diversity which plz can we
But that's not what I was getting at. Some people have an issue accepting that anyone who isn't immediately announced as LGBT could be anything but straight. And that includes characters that have shown no signs of being interested in the opposite sex. It's not about whether or not they're likely to be. Some people will still assume that they simply must be, because reasons.
This issue comes up again and again when discussing characters that aren't explicitly queer-coded. I made it a point to mention that Cloud is most likely not bisexual, for the very reason you mentioned. I don't find any compelling evidence to suggest he could be and statistics tell me he's probably not. On the other hand, you also have people who would outright dismiss the idea that a character they've always assumed to be straight simply isn't, not based on evidence but plain old prejudice. A character who is LGBT but not confirmed as such until much later does not need to have their minority status foreshadowed in any way. Real life doesn't work like that.
If you want to talk about statistics, it's certainly true that most people are heterosexual - or at the very least on that end of the spectrum if measured using the Kinsey scale. But if we were to apply real life logic to video games, and it seems we are, it would also make total sense that there are at least a couple of notable characters in each game, be it heroes or villains, who are LGBT and we just don't know it. And I'm not talking about characters whose sexual or gender identity are played up solely for the sake of cheap laughs. As such, speculating about who could be is a totally valid discussion to have.
There's barely any proper sexual or gender minority representation in Final Fantasy. Fang and Vanille probably come the closest, but even then Square Enix won't come out and say it and you'll have lots of people trying to argue it's just in some people's imagination even though there's actual evidence to support the theory that they're a couple even if not conclusive.
And if we look at other media, there are people out there who deny that Yuri and Victor from Yuri on Ice are a couple even though it's clear as day. Likewise, people assumed Bill from the Last of Us was straight even though the game gave you enough clues to figure out he wasn't. Same with Kung Jin from Mortal Kombat X. In both cases, the writers had to confirm it on Twitter because sadly a lot people refused to believe or acknowledge it otherwise. It's a weird mentality, but one that is surprisingly common.