The difference between gratuitous action and gratuitous boob shots etc is that with the latter, you have to deal with issues of representation, objectification and hindering character development of characters who were given particular traits and features while the other characters are made more dynamic, given more important roles or simply aren't treated like they exist solely for sexual appeal.
Well, I don't think this is worth the discussion so I'm not going go into the whys and hows, but I'll give the brief outline of my own stance :
1.) I don't buy "objectification" as a concept except in instances where actual human beings are actually and tangibly being treated as objects - and even in those cases I distinguish between cases where people are actually being hurt by that treatment and where they are not.
2.) I only see representation as nominally important when dealing with non-fiction, or fiction specifically meant to primarily mimic reality, and
3.) I think there is a distinction to be made between a character's sexual portrayal actually being a detriment to the character, and members of the audience thinking this is the case because once sex is introduced they become unable to appreciate the character's other aspects because they are narrowing their entire experience of the character down to the sex because they have a problem with that specifically -
and with that being said - in my personal experience it's more often the latter than the former.
I don't think there is any argument we could have that would make us see eye to eye on these points though, but now you know where I stand at least, and why I don't accept your distinction in this case.
As far as I am concerned, there is no real difference between the personal emotional dislike of certain sexual portrayals, and between personal emotional dislikes of anything else in art an media.
It's literally to me, the exact same thing as when a person tells me there's something wrong with media that has same-sex couples kissing in it, or whether they don't like violence in media, or whether they don't like kids-shows blablabla...
Depending on the context of the scenes, the frames used to showcase a character's cleavage could've been used to show things like meaningful actions, facial expressions and so on.
Yes, there's will always be some form of content meant to please the fans but that can take more constructive and useful forms such as unintrusive continuity nods, clever references and we'll executed real world parallels that show just how much research went into everything. When the story takes a backseat to shallowly catering to things like sex appeal that serve no purpose to the story and take away time and resources that could've been used on something more meaningful, it leaves the end result hollow and cheap or at the very least of lesser quality than it could've been.
This betrays, whether you're aware of it or not, a perspective of a uniform and universal standard for the purpose of art and media, and I can't get behind that.
Not all art and media exists to be meaningful, and quality is only a qualifier that is meaningfully applied once you have an idea what the purpose of a specific works is to begin with.
If I create a work of fiction that is specifically designed to function as escapism to single, lonely and horny boys in their late to mid teens - then the quality and meaning of that is directly correlated to the sexy aspects of what I am making. For such a product, it would be more damaging to spend resources on long monologues.
Just saying.
Now, I do get your point. And I'm not trying to make the argument that FFVII is such a thing, or would even benefit from being framed towards audiences like that.
I'm simply saying that art and media specifically has a wide spectrum of application - one of which includes sexual gratification, and I think that trying to arrest certain products for also having elements of sexual pandering among other things seems like a generally pointless exercise to engage in.
But, if you think it has a real and tangible damaging effect on society - sure. If I thought that, I'd be completely on board too.
As I said though - I don't buy those arguments.
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You guys going on about feminists on the other hand - give it a rest please.
One thing is disagreeing, but blanket statements like that do nothing but antagonize and instigate trouble.