Harry Potter and the Chitter of Chatting

[Cat Rage Room]

True, which is why I always hold my opinions with a shaky hand.

But until that day comes, I'll still hold onto my views.

Keep an open mind!

And whoa, I HATE THIS VIEW. SO. FUCKING. MUCH. To me sex means so much more. I don't like how people can just throw it away just so they won't be teased that they are still a virgin. But that's just me. It's your body, why do you have to disrespect it so much just because of social peer pressure?
Then again it is that person's body to do whatever the hell they want with it. I just hate it that people would just lose their virginity drunk or just randomly because they feel horrible about it.

Whoa whoa, I was talking about the aforementioned positions (with a loving partner, presumably), not sex itself! I was just saying that you'll try a position you don't think you'd like and then you'd absolutely like it once it felt so good. Keep in mind that you have these views about said positions, not really because of how they might feel, but what you think of them mentally.

I was just saying you'll change your mind once you try it. Your mental inhibitions towards say, cowgirl or doggy will fade once it feels mindblowingly good (and it does, almost universally. Statistics aren't on your side if you think it won't feel great for you, haha!).

 

[Joker]

I'm sure that there's a commitment between two people out there, and it can be strong, but love is such too strong of a word in my opinion.

 

[A]

I'm sorry.

 

[Cat Rage Room]

I'm sorry.

What's your definition of love? True love?

 

[Ⓐaron]

I know love exists, because I've experienced it first hand. The time I spent with her was easily the happiest time of my life. I still don't have a damn clue why it ended.

 

[Dawnbreaker]

Indeed, not every sexual activity is suited to everyone, but eliminating the vast majority of them because of some perconceived notions of them, particularly if such notions come from a misplaced sense of femimism, is just limiting your capablity of enjoyment. Now mind you, there are somethings I won't do, because I just don't like the sound of it (and other reasons) but I also try to balance it out with an equal (or higher) number that I do try.

 

[Joker]

I know love exists, because I've experienced it first hand. The time I spent with her was easily the happiest time of my life. I still don't have a damn clue why it ended.

This.

Which is why your post makes me sad, ofc.

 

[Carlie]

Hello people

 

[A]

I depressed everyone.

 

[Cat Rage Room]

What's your definition of love? True love?

 

[A]

I don't have one.

But yeah, sorry if I made you guys feel gloomy.

 

[Cat Rage Room]

I don't have one.

Huh, that sort of...invalidates everything else you've been saying.

 

[A]

I guess you could say I'm very confused/sound confusing when it comes to this.

 

[Tifaeria]

Keep an open mind!



Whoa whoa, I was talking about the aforementioned positions (with a loving partner, presumably), not sex itself! I was just saying that you'll try a position you don't think you'd like and then you'd absolutely like it once it felt so good. Keep in mind that you have these views about said positions, not really because of how they might feel, but what you think of them mentally.

I was just saying you'll change your mind once you try it. Your mental inhibitions towards say, cowgirl or doggy will fade once it feels mindblowingly good (and it does, almost universally. Statistics aren't on your side if you think it won't feel great for you, haha!).

Ah ok. My bad! And I wasn't gonna go by statistics anyway since I dunno where to look for that (and I never thought about bring that up).
I'll try and keep an open mind when I actually date some day/month/year, but I won't hold my breath.

Indeed, not every sexual activity is suited to everyone, but eliminating the vast majority of them because of some perconceived notions of them, particularly if such notions come from a misplaced sense of femimism, is just limiting your capablity of enjoyment. Now mind you, there are somethings I won't do, because I just don't like the sound of it (and other reasons) but I also try to balance it out with an equal (or higher) number that I do try.

LOL! Now I know why I never talk about serious issues and what my opinions are.

 

[Dawnbreaker]

Did I say I was directing that to you? I'm making a general comment. I just don't like people who have negative feelings towards love/sex/romance yet only because they view it through jaded eyes. Most things in life have two sides to it, and IMO, love/sex/romance is one of them.

 

[Ryushikaze]

I'm not naive. No, if I was naive I'd be saying that, "I fell in love with someone!" even though it was just a day.

Naiivete comes in all forms, kiddo. There's the naiivete of falling too quickly in love and the naiivete of not believing in love.

With age comes experience. With experience, new outlooks and wisdom.

Also new levels and awesome powers you can crush your foes with.

 

[A]

But I'm not naive about it, I have my reasons, my experiences, and why I view it the way it is.

Also new levels and awesome powers you can crush your foes with.

 

[Cat Rage Room]

But I'm not naive about it, I have my reasons, my experiences, and why I view it the way it is.

However, keep in mind that you're only 16 years old.

 

[crack]

What I'm confused about is the fact that you don't believe in love, and yet you strongly support Erik/Christine, Cloud/Tifa, Luke/Thalia as OTP's. What does that say about you? Didn't you say that Cloud and Tifa loved each other at least one point in a debate?

 

[Tifaeria]

Did I say I was directing that to you? I'm making a general comment. I just don't like people who have negative feelings towards love/sex/romance yet only because they view it through jaded eyes. Most things in life have two sides to it, and IMO, love/sex/romance is one of them.

No, but my existence is known to you now, and you're probably gonna ignore me everytime you sign in. Which I'm ok with. Whatever floats your boat.

Ali, like MOG says to you and me, we still have much to learn and we can't always hold these opinions forever. I'm sure you're feeling down now but you'll feel better in the future. You just have to be patient and ignore the idiots.
Feel better Ali!

 

[A]

What I'm confused about is the fact that you don't believe in love, and yet you strongly support Erik/Christine, Cloud/Tifa, Luke/Thalia as OTP's. What does that say about you? Didn't you say that Cloud and Tifa loved each other at least one point in a debate?

But those pairings aren't real.

Ali, like MOG says to you and me, we still have much to learn and we can't always hold these opinions forever. I'm sure you're feeling down now but you'll feel better in the future. You just have to be patient and ignore the idiots.
Feel better Ali!

Why would I be down on this?

 

[Ryushikaze]

I think what Ali's saying at the moment is that love is a nice idea but it doesn't reasonably happen in real life. I'm curious what her experiences that led her to this experience are.

And kiddo, I'll be frank. True love does exist, but not everyone finds it. You just gotta keep looking and hoping you find someone right for you.

 

[Alessa Gillespie]

So you support fictional love but don't believe in it IRL? Seems sort of sad.

 

[A]

So you support fictional love but don't believe in it IRL? Seems sort of sad.

I am a sad, sad person.

 

[Alessa Gillespie]

I am a sad, sad person.

BUT I LOVE YOU. *throws nonexistent emotions at Ali*