Harry Potter and the Chitter of Chatting

[Dawnbreaker]

opppppppppppppps, is that Carlos? Oh god, I'm sorry. xD

Light bondage is fun. I don't really go for anything extreme, as it's not meant for that, IMO, but having a guy restrained while I'm pleasuring him is fun because it prevents him from stopping me because he dosen't know if he can take anymore, plus it leaves him at my mercy for teasing, pleasing, squeezing fun!

Striptease + bound boyfriend = awesomeness

 

[Joker]

Queen of Smex, indeed

 

[A]

Spending the rest of your life with someone is romantic. That's a strong commitment, right there.

How often does that happen these days?

 

[Cat Rage Room]

How often does that happen these days?

Even if it only happened once ever, that's enough to prove that true love exists.

 

[Alessa Gillespie]

How often does that happen these days?

Cloud and Teefa?

 

[Cat Rage Room]

Aw man, sorry bout that. This thread is also making me goddamn depressed/lonely because I never had a boyfriend before and it makes me even more of a freak that I don't do those positions that guys love and would probably not date me because of it.

But now I'm confused.

 

[A]

Cloud and Teefa?

Damnit, you know how to nearly convince someone.

Even if it only happened once ever, that's enough to prove that true love exists.

Then why is the number of 'true loves,' decreasing?

 

[crack]

True love still exists, even if the number is still decreasing.

 

[Joker]

How often does that happen these days?

But what you're saying is that even if they do, it's not love.

It's not really a question of "how often does it happen?" People DO win the lottery, even with insane odds.

It's like you don't even want it to be possible, really. That's rather depressing.

 

[Cat Rage Room]

Then why is the number of 'true loves,' decreasing?

Different factors, but not a decrease of the concept that it exists. It definitely exists if it happened at least once.

 

[Dawnbreaker]

JACKPOT!

 

[Alessa Gillespie]

There's a difference between the pragmatic love of old ("I will love this man because he is a good person and I don't have much of a choice.") and romantic love of now ("I adore this person, and I would love to make them happy.")

 

[Joker]

"I adore this person, and I would love to make them happy."

And I do.

Though even those words don't do it justice.

 

[Tifaeria]

But now I'm confused.

Let me explain. I am not a girl who sleeps around and has no boyfriend. Even though I never had a boyfriend before, I am friends with girls/gay guy who....really have a good time. Like they pick someone up, have sex, and look for someone else. They then compare partners and see how many they did.

For me, I always listen to stories and help them out whenever they feel awful or dunno what's going on in a relationship. So yeah, I can't say from experience, but I have heard, seen, and know what you guys are talking about and why I can say I don't like it.

 

[Cat Rage Room]

Let me explain. I am not a girl who sleeps around and has no boyfriend. Even though I never had a boyfriend before, I am friends with girls/gay guy who....really have a good time. Like they pick someone up, have sex, and look for someone else. They then compare partners and see how many they did.

For me, I always listen to stories and help them out whenever they feel awful or dunno what's going on in a relationship. So yeah, I can't say from experience, but I have heard, seen, and know what you guys are talking about and why I can say I don't like it.

Let me tell you something.

Once you start having sex, you will quickly do, and enjoy, a lot of things you said you wouldn't before. Trust me. You will have very little negative to say about say, doggy style once you're doing it and it feels better than anything physically you've ever felt in your life (and this is likely to be the case).

You will try it. At least once. To see what it's like. In the heat of the moment perhaps. Or just to say you did. And you will like it. A lot. I guaranfuckingtee it.

Sex is definitely a firsthand experience.

 

[A]

Different factors, but not a decrease of the concept that it exists. It definitely exists if it happened at least once.

Different factors? How so?

 

[Cat Rage Room]

Different factors? How so?

All sorts of different factors are why true love is decreasing. For one, not as many people are looking for it. Something can exist, but if you're not looking for it, you're most likely not going to find it, unless it stumbles onto you, which can happen. And keep in mind that true love exists, but it has to develop. Many people don't let it.

 

[Ⓐaron]

Yeah the current generation really has no patience. Love doesn't develop overnight, no matter what thousands of trashy romance novels may claim.

 

[Alex]

I blame Twilight

 

[Ⓐaron]

Twilight is only the most flagrant example of this common misconception, and only really the most flagrant because it's the most popular.

 

[Dawnbreaker]

True love at first sight? No. Attraction at first sight? Yes. IMO, that's how it goes.

 

[A]

I'm sure that there's a commitment between two people out there, and it can be strong, but love is such too strong of a word in my opinion.

 

[Tifaeria]

Let me tell you something.

Once you start having sex, you will quickly do, and enjoy, a lot of things you said you wouldn't before. Trust me. You will have very little negative to say about say, doggy style once you're doing it and it feels better than anything physically you've ever felt in your life (and this is likely to be the case).

Sex is definitely a firsthand experience.

True, which is why I always hold my opinions with a shaky hand.

But until that day comes, I'll still hold onto my views.

You will try it. At least once. To see what it's like. In the heat of the moment perhaps. Or just to say you did. And you will like it. A lot. I guaranfuckingtee it.

And whoa, I HATE THIS VIEW. SO. FUCKING. MUCH. To me sex means so much more. I don't like how people can just throw it away just so they won't be teased that they are still a virgin. But that's just me. It's your body, why do you have to disrespect it so much just because of social peer pressure?
Then again it is that person's body to do whatever the hell they want with it. I just hate it that people would just lose their virginity drunk or just randomly because they feel horrible about it.

But that's another topic altogether!

 

[Alessa Gillespie]

True love at first sight? No. Attraction at first sight? Yes. IMO, that's how it goes.

NO TWILIGHT TOLD ME YOU CAN LOVE SOMEONE IN ONLY TEN DAYS. IF IT DOESN'T HAPPEN BY THEN WE'RE CLEARLY DOOMED AND I'M DUMPING HIS ASS.

 

[Dawnbreaker]

But isn't this whole thread a "'nother topic altogether"?

What a person decides to do with their body, so long as you do not adversely affect anyone else, is up to them. But there's also things people can recommend to make the experience more enjoyable and to limit risks and consequences. It's all about maximizing the experience while minizing the negative affects.