Didn't Tifa say something along the lines of, "If it was Aeris, she would have just come out and said it."
O U TIFA, BASHING YOURSELF. DON'T YOU REALIZE THAT'S EXACTLY THE SAME AS SAYING YOU'RE EMOTIONALLY DEPENDENT AND WEAK WILLED?
If Hojo was such a fucking nightmare for Aerith WHY does she not recognize him-
lol what
what, he may not have directly experimented on her (lab assistant, anyone?) and second of all doesn't she point him out on the beach? It's either her or Tifa, I remember because if you choose to ignore him and check out the chick in the bikini you get in trouble.
Elmyra is a constant in her life. A parent that loves her.
Her home is a happy one.
It's actually stated (I think the Japanese version of the game guide) says she has a strained relationship with her foster mother. I'm not saying they didn't love each other, but you're not exactly taking into account her stepmom probably wasn't thrilled with government agents showing up at her house, nor was she hopping for joy at her nine year old adopted daughter talking to dead people and going on about how her husband returned to the planet. Aeris also tends to come and go as she pleases and it seems like she spends more time at the church than she does at her own house.
Then there is that whole thing about being able to still hear her dead mother, but that's a whooole other tangent.
Why do we not want that for her? It doesn't make her weak to not come from a shitload of disfunction.
It doesn't, but not recognizing some of the dysfunction that is actually there is to ignore certain aspects of her character. For example, why she is so secretive and emotionally distant from people. Or why she is socially awkward -- not in the quiet loner type of way, but more in the
I'm so excited to be around people that I don't realize I just stuck my foot in my mouth. Oh well, LET'S GO PLAY GAMES..
Yes, Aeris is brave, opinionated, and strong emotionally in the sense that she is one of the most self assured people in the group, but she has these faults that are completely overlooked because she's wearing pink and seemingly always happy.
Tifa is a total smartass (something that's more apparent in the first game than the movie) but the reason why people say she is not emotionally as strong as Aeris is because she is so unsure of herself. This isn't a
bad thing, and while it might seem like an oversimplification it's not inaccurate (people just hear the word "weak" and bristle without actually thinking about it in context). She's strong in the sense that she keeps it together under pressure, but her biggest character flaw is her inability to speak up. This is why the Lifestream scene is just a big climatic turn for both characters because she finally gets the guts to say, "Hey, you're wrong."
I know there's the argument of, "But if she's told him earlier, he'd be more messed up!" That may be true, but we're all looking at it from an outside perspective (and one that's been skewed by several replays through the story).
I mean really, I like to ramble about both girls 'cause I love 'em, but the Tifa & Aeris discussion always turns into a giant pissing contest about who's the most tortured. Seriously, neither one of them had a great childhood. I'm pretty sure if Aeris was like, "Hey, I'll swap childhood experimentation and dead voices for being orphaned and almost sliced in half!" Tifa would be like wtf no.