:bmonster: So this is ok, but :pinkhandmon: is not?
No, it's not fucking okay. But guess what? When you mention these things, people don't listen and brush it off. You know, like almost everyone has done here.
And the use of a slur by a particular group that finds it offensive - in this case, I am specifically referring to my own use of the dreaded "n-word" - is typically a form of disempowerment. Try to take the bite out of it so that when you hear it shouted at you in a not friendly way (hi this happens to me daily), it doesn't sting so much.
Yeah, it's goddamm fucking offensive, and you have NO RIGHT to tell anyone how anyone else feels about something or whether it's offensive or not. Remember thar tls secret about there not being more openly gay males on the forum? With shit like this, is it really surprising?
But people don't say anything because they dont want to be laughed at for their opinion, or cause trouble, or whatever. Just because they don't speak out against it doesn't mean they're okay with it.
ooooo man I do not need to get this worked up this early in the workday