now i don't know if i got the download uk version would i still be able to use it with my accounts (which are both tied to the japanese side of things because i didn't foresee this situation happening). and the japanese preorder on psn ended like four days ago for some reason.
i suppose i can wait / be dead weight for everyone because i am lagging behind in levels and shit
You definitely can. There were people who went to the Japanese servers when there were errors during the beta (the servers are univeral) so logging in with your Japanese SE account shouldn't be a problem, then joining cerberus with a new character if you want.
With early access if you pre-order the game (from say Amazon, who should still have codes) they send you a code that you put into the Square Enix pre-order site, which generates a code for you to get early access. So that part isn't even tied to your account - it's only tied to your account when you log in to your SE account on your computer and redeem the code from the retailer, and as far as I can tell it's not region specific.
I've also just checked and there's a Japanese language option in the client aswell, if you would rather play the game in Japanese. The early access code comes with a physical copy (I think the standard edition of the game is about £20 for PS3) or the digital copy, depends on your preference. I know that they said early access codes were limited but I ordered mine on Monday from Amazon and still got one so if you'd rather have a physical copy it comes with the digital download anyway
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