You should realise, you are talking about people who argued that the "koibito" used to describe Tifa as Cloud's lover was really "koi________bito". There is little good faith coming from that side - not the loudest ones, at least. We have some very good people here though, one of my friends is a CA but she knows the story - it's all about accepting that if you ship it, it's not for canon, it's for fun.
Recently there was even a "Fluffy is representing Aerith" theory coming from there and I'm sorry but they were clowned and it was deserved. It was yet another attempt to take something from Tifa for Aerith - Fluffy is just her cat, really, and she connected Cloud and Tifa together when they were kids. That came after the blue baby theory, the jealous kiss theory, the cheek kiss theory, and probably more and more I forgot right now because it's getting late. There are fans who are levelheaded, and then there are those, louders, whom you see frequently on X - even more so because they create a lot of alts. And the latter don't really have a good history with analysis, good faith argument, semantics.