Um no, I have higher standards for myself, kthanks.
The statement was in response to you, but wasn't directed at you.
And if you want to get into that conversation, while I do believe that sex is at its best with someone you really love and care about (however, since my last recent breakup with my long term girlfriend, I'm not really looking for another one any time soon, and I
sure as hell don't plan to wait until I get another long term girlfriend to have sex again), if it 'just happens' with someone you really like and are attracted to that doesn't have that boyfriend/girlfriend label (yet, even), there's nothing slutty or lacking in standard about that.
Sex is the highest form of physical expression and I can understand that it has certain boundaries, but getting into an ivory tower situation about it and utterly restricting yourself to it, is just...unrealistic, I think.