You know, there was no need for you to say anything, Val. I'm tired of arguing about it. I'm also tired of being constantly disagreed with and argued with. And just when the thread/topic slows down, someone else shows up to post another disagreement and keep it going, likely not aware of the cumulative effect all of that has on a person. You're not a pscyhoanalyst, so please don't tell me what I'm thinking or feeling. I don't think you would want the same done to you.
And you know, putting me down doesn't help, either. Just saying. It just has the opposite effect and perpetuates this thing, as does the constant disagreement. I'm not asking anyone to say things they don't mean. There's just no need to say anything at all and keep it going. And incidentally, I wasn't really that invested in the pairing when I first started writing my story. it just developed as the writing went along and all the trailers came out last year.
And all the disagreement and disparagement of the idea just made me more invested in it.
I think you only say their arguments are logical and rational because you agree with them. Would you still if you didn't? It's your opinion that the idea is implausible, not a fact. Everyone has some amount of bias, nobody is purely logical. And nobody knows everything. Including me. But as many have already done, I think you're misunderstanding what I'm asking for. I've made it quite clear earlier in the thread. One small moment of reciprocity, of acknowledgement of her feelings. No dialogue needed. Even Tres has said that it may not be unreasonable.
I'm not pressuring anyone. I'm not making them reply to any of the threads. They're choosing to do that on their own. I'm just replying when replied to. Oh, and Mako, I forgot to mention this before, and I'm not trying to start anything, but if you've been in my position before like you said, why have you been knowingly contributing to doing it to someone else (me)?
What I want is to not be made to feel so alone, for people to stop arguing with me and going on and on and on about how and why they think it won't or can't work.
If you guys disagree, fine, but I don't need a list of all the reasons why or essays on how bad it would be. Just a simple, polite thing like "I understand what you're saying, but I don't agree." without all the extra exposition and without denigrating the idea itself. And before anyone goes and says I should do the same, I will, if it's also done for me. Also, before anyone brings up what happened with EM, I'll admit I shouldn't have been so stubborn about that question and should have just let it be.
Tres, thanks. It's not so much the topic as it is the overwhelmingly negative response with seemingly no thought given as to how all of that piled together would affect me.