I was never targeting you specifically, so idk why you're getting so defensive.
I'm aware I got a bit aggressive and that makes people completely write off anything someone has to say.
I've just been seeing this shit a lot lately and it drives me up a wall. I get mad about things that make me mad, and I wish people would be more self-aware about the things they say.
The use of the word "digusting," that I used, was maybe a case of projection, though I don't think unfairly so.
I once dated a guy who made a point of telling me "I actually think girls with big boobs are disgusting." And I was like whoa whoa whoa, I am not proud of you right now for your unconventional taste, please don't call women disgusting for having a certain body shape. I let him know that that statement was actually really sexist, and then he ended up having a panic attack because he couldn't handle being called sexist. Which I wasn't even trying to do, I was just trying to tell him not to say stuff like that.
So anyway I keep seeing a million forms of that. Men screaming into the wind "I AM NOT SEXIST, I RESPECT WOMEN, I DON'T EVEN LIKE BOOBS." It's okay if you like boobs. You can like boobs and still respect women. There are plenty of women who like boobs, even.
Anyway, there was a time when boobs/fanservice in things bothered me, but I consider it to be a mark of immaturity. I think a large part of what got me past it, was the manga Bleach, which has female characters with all sorts of different body shapes, including a handful with unrealistically large anime boobs. And those characters are among my absolute favorites. When I see people on the internet over-sexualize them or reduce them to their body shapes it annoys the hell out of me. But in no way do I think the source material does that.
So then there's that feeling of, if the author wanted people to respect these characters and look at them as more than just a body shape, why didn't he make them more reasonably proportioned? But then you're just saying, NO BIG BOOBS ALLOWED. Women having big boobs is vulgar and pornographic, keep that out of my classy reading material. I like having different body shapes represented. I like that Orihime (Bleach), Matsumoto (also Bleach) and Tifa have big boobs, it's part of them and I like them.
So I stopped caring. Load my shit up with fanservice, I don't care. It means nothing. If people are gonna reduce my favorite characters to being just hot boob ladies, then that's gonna bother me. If someone's gonna be attracted to Tifa for having big boobs, but also other reasons also? Cool. Don't care. That's fine.
Midgar is basically porn for me, so I don't see why other people shouldn't have the things that excite them in the game.
I get that feeling like something is blatantly pandery, rather than sincere, is always gonna be annoying in any form. That's the one window through which I can understand being concerned. Butttt, still don't think it's gonna be an issue. Don't think Remake is gonna end up just a bunch of fanservice and don't think Tifa's gonna end up just a pair of floating boobs.