Ok, I'm finally not posting from my phone, so I'm gonna get into this in a little bit more detail:
See, this is where I think that the people making this claim aren't really getting it. This type of response is treating it like they're all back on everything's ok with Gallifrey,
but it's not. There's
HOPE,
but that's it.
In
The Angels Take Manhattan, Amy & Rory are locked in another time that's inaccessible, but it didn't make the fact that they were trapped there any less tragic just because they were technically still alive when they were trapped. Gallifrey right now still doesn't exist in all of our time and space and it's frozen as well.
Yes, in a WAY, that's different than them being dead. To me that's potentially even more tragic when he talks about all the people that he's lost because of the Time War, and here's why: When it's 9/10/pre-DotD-11, he's sad because he was responsible for their deaths immediately upon using The Moment. However, looking at this in hind sight and in everything moving from this point onward from
The Day of The Doctor, there's a different type of tragedy to it.
Now the Doctor KNOWS that somehow he can find them - and it's something he can't ever give up. This isn't something that he can just grow out of and move on from like he did when he'd burned Gallifrey (which we see with Eleven). For all intents and purposes, this is the still same as before but ALSO makes him even more responsible for their fates than he was before. Now the fate of Gallifrey rests on him being able to finish doing the RIGHT THING, rather than doing THE WRONG thing, and that's what's most important to me about how DotD affected his character.
• The immediate consequences of Gallifrey being gone from the current universe are the same as before - the Time Lords are all gone, and they were lost in the final day of the Time War. The Doctor rid the universe of them in order to end the Time War, and thus left himself as the last living Time Lord in all of time and space. He's all alone.
• The long-term consequences of everyone on Gallifrey SURVIVING all rests with the Doctor. If he doesn't find them -
it's exactly the same as if he'd burned them out of time. THAT is his new motivation, and it's powerful BECAUSE of how painful it was before. He KNOWS that pain, and giving up on finding Gallifrey is the same as burning them all away all over again.
THIS is why I call it Schrödinger's Gallifrey: the survival of Gallifrey all depends on the Doctor finding and saving them - which comes with its own huge set of consequences (what with the High Council and everything and the ramifications of potentially igniting another Time War if they return), so saving them ISN'T just a pure victory even when he DOES get there.
Hell, to get into another universe in
The Doctor's Wife he had to burn up rooms from the TARDIS - and that's even when he knew where they were going. In this case, they're folded into a pocket universe, and that pocket universe is a single frozen moment of time, so it's not like he'll be able to receive a signal pointing to where it is, like the Hypercube did in
The Doctor's Wife. It's going to be a long, hard journey of exploration and something that only he can do.
This is why
The Day of The Doctor is amazing, and why I still totally don't buy anyone who says that the pain of Nine, Ten, & Eleven or the audience connection to that is lessened by those events. There's never been a single example I've seen made where it just doesn't come across as that party not really grasping what the events of sealing away Gallifrey rather than burning it actually means.
You've got Cybermen, Silence, Weeping Angels, & Daleks, Eleven attempting to not die as a warrior, what "Silence Will Fall" means (now that the question has been asked), finding out who snuck aboard the TARDIS to destroy it while the Doctor was trapped in the Pandorica, overcoming the Regeneration Limit, & probably something else as well. (I'm wondering what and how the grave that we saw at Trenzalore will play into it all, since Clara entered the Doctor's timestream and didn't see Capaldi, and if there's a way that this monument plays into it all).
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