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Whenever I hear Adele's Skyfall, it reminds me of Amy and Rory's loss.
By comparison, Donna's 'fate' is a downright happy little fairy tale: She doesn't even remember what got taken away from her to miss it the whole rest of her life, she got to stay in her home with her friends, family, and loved ones, AND be happily married and win the lottery.
@Tres:By comparison, Donna's 'fate' is a downright happy little fairy tale: She doesn't even remember what got taken away from her to miss it the whole rest of her life, she got to stay in her home with her friends, family, and loved ones, AND be happily married and win the lottery. Amy & Rory kept each other. That's it.
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Yes, but we see later on that Donna gets that appreciation elsewhere from her new husband & family and her life turns out just lovely - even without knowing who she was to the Doctor, because he still finds ways to help her - like winning the lottery. Her not knowing what happened with Doctor is literally a non-factor in her life, because the people around her help her rediscover that sense of self worth BECAUSE she doesn't know. Hell, it's more of a consequence for Wilf than it is for her, since he wants to be able to tell her and can't. She still ends up WAY better off than she was before she met the Doctor.
Amy & Rory get left remembering all of that and knowing that everyone they love isn't and can't come to help them, and every single thing that they'll never see again. Even just looking at family, Brian Williams got it SO much worse than Wilf, because he helped convince Amy & Rory to keep traveling with the Doctor, and as a result, ended up getting both of them taken from him and left with a letter & an adopted grandson older than he is - just a week later. No warnings, no real goodbyes, no reconciliation, nothing. The big difference here is that (as soon as the Doctor fixes the cracks in the universe), Amy, Rory, Brian, (& assumedly Amy's parents) don't all end up better off. Not by a LONG shot.
The whole thing to me is that what Donna REALLY loses is her sense of self worth and that's something that she gets back elsewhere, and even has a little help from the Doctor by proxy in doing so. Amy & Rory lose their home, possessions, friends, family, lifestyle, literally everything familiar to them aside from each other, and even the barest hope of ever getting back any of it.
tl;dr - They're both bad, but the fate of the Weeping Angels is FAR worse than selective amnesia any way you slice it.
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Ugh. Donna's brain-thing is one of the dumbest things RTD did. No, not the 'She can't remember' the 'She can NEVER REMEMBER OR ELSE' and then End of Time. Blegh.
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I'm going to have to disagree. Donna had very little self-worth and a narcissistic mother who treated her like crap and always put her down and told her how worthless she was. Donna becomes the most important woman in the universe and can never remember that. She doesn't even know her own self worth. I kind of take that as a statement of, most people don't realize their own worth or potential. Donna never will.
It helps, though, that in the end The Doctor called Donna's mom out on her shit. In "The End of Time," her mother seems less harsh and even quite protective of her.