Don't forget several points; first, in the Midgard part, there was very little cloti in the OG, because cloti is a slow burn that develops later. However, since they were focusing on Midgard only, they had to up the number of scenes for cloti, especially since they wanted the girls to have even scenes with Cloud now. And Tifa is nicely expanded on, as we can see her doubts, but still going on missions to help Avalanche, to finally crying on Cloud's shoulder because of the massive loss they both had. Also I do think that their scene in ch14 was excessively well done and represents the ship in the best way it could.
Second, for everything Cloud says, remember: he is 16 in his head. He was written that way, with care by Nojima. He is 16 and trying to put on a front, but with Tifa, that facade tends to loosen, hence why he looks like a puppy sometimes with her. I think that once you get that, it goes "ohhhhh that explains sooooooo many things".
Third, they also expanded on Aerith and chose to have her know more than what she did in the OG (seemingly, at least). So her reactions to Cloud actually reflect that.
Given the number of fans who love cloti, they couldn't, and won't be able to "tone it down", especially since this time around, I do feel that they're giving it ground, unlike the OG, for the things that happen after Aerith's death can look more smooth and credible. All in all, I do find cloti to be STILL a slow burn BTW, compared to clerith. Even with Aerith's new reactions. That said maybe you should post that in the FC or the new coke LTD thread. It would be some nice discussion, me think.