I don't really have much to add, but because I like inserting myself into conversations where I don't belong, I'm going to chime in with my two cents anyway.
I wrote all this and then people started posting about Zack's VA so this might be off-topic now, but yeah I hate his new VA too. Anyway...
I really enjoyed the experience of playing the Remake — that is, I really loved the gameplay and had a lot of fun experiencing the story and character dynamics as updated for 2020. I thought there were some expansions/additions that added so much to the story in a fantastic way (like Chapter 4) and others that kind of dragged a bit (like returning to the sewers in Chapter 14).
I guess I sort of fall in the middle of the discourse over whether or not this is a good "remake" because I genuinely enjoyed the game, even while playing Chapter 18, even though I was thinking, "what the fuck is going on" the entire time. It wasn't until I finished my first playthrough that I sat back and was like, "Huh, this story is kind of funky now and I don't know if I like it."
In some ways, I think SE has sort of written themselves into a corner. Whether that corner is a good corner or not is yet to be seen, but it's a corner nonetheless because in any case a certain faction will be disappointed. That's not necessarily a bad thing, but it's an issue that's arisen of SE's own design. To generalize a bit, there are people who are happy they're getting a remake-sequel and actively want things to be different vs. people who see "defying fate" as a red herring and think things will stay largely the same even if they occur differently vs. people who aren't happy with the remake-sequel but also won't be happy if things stay largely the same because what was the point of the Whispers in the first place then?
And then there are the people who are just going to play the games because they're fun and not really care about any of this, but I don't think any of us here fall into that category, lol. In whatever direction SE decides to go, some people aren't going to be happy.
I'm cautiously optimistic. I think SE did a phenomenal job with (mostly) everything up until Chapter 18. I hope that they continue to channel that energy into the next installments going forward, because that kind of passion really shone through in their depiction of Midgar. Maybe SE will pull off something amazing and blow all our minds. But, at the same time, SE hasn't had the best track record in recent years in regards to the FF series (barring FFXIV) and they have a tendency to backpedal and ruin perfectly decent stories (i.e. FFXV Dawn of the Future or whatever that's supposed to be). So, I guess the Remake wasn't a dealbreaker for me, but Part 2 very well could be.