Alright, I have taken a break from this thread for a bit so I would like to add some thoughts here because I have seen this argument stated many times over on the many forums and blogs.
So for this, let's talk about the Cloud X Aerith argument about the Cloud X Tifa hug scene being manipulative and abusive to Cloud.
Booby traps the hallway outside of her room so that she can hear if Cloud tries to leave without her knowing.
Forces Cloud back into his room when he sets off said booby traps, and also calling him a jerk as she pushes Cloud back into to his room while saying “I thought I told you to stay in your room.”
When Cloud does make it out of the house she sneaks on ahead so he absolutely will not be able to continue without her.
Takes him through a long and dangerous route just because SHE wants to spend more time with him (to back up this claim, while in the playground
when Cloud asks if she’ll be ok getting home by herself she says she has a backup route for emergencies that’s safer) Also, she said it herself that she "isn't tired of him yet."
Wants to stop and relight a campfire to have a break just to draw out their time together despite him trying to leave her house multiple times and constantly saying he needs to get back to Sector 7 as fast as possible.
When finally at the door to sector 7 she says “more importantly, how about a break” and completely ignores his protests, that he has to get back to Sector 7
Cloud has no choice but to follow her because he doesn’t know the way back on his own.
She ignores Cloud’s constant protests and saying he needs to get back, essentially holds him hostage just because she wants to spend more time with him.
These are all things that she subjectively does. She knew he wanted to get back, so instead she takes him through a long and dangerous route despite having a safer alternative route and ignores what he wants and says.
As I have stated before, these are some of the reasons why I do not like Aerith. So, in case you are wondering I do not find these moments above cute and shippy, no I am not bashing on Aerith for doing these things. I am simply pointing out the double standard that whenever Tifa has a moment with Cloud she is somehow being manipulative and abusive, yet Aerith who is actively being manipulative is ignored or twisted to be something cute, endearing, and shippy, and to believe otherwise is somehow unfair don't you think?
Just a reminder like Tifa, Aerith has flaws too and pointing out a flaw she has when another character is being given a flaw she doesn’t have isn’t bashing. What is bashing is hating on Tifa for saying that she is manipulative and giving her flaws and personality traits she doesn’t have just because Cloud hugged her in the CH14 resolution scene.