The best part of the film was probably the reveal of the father/daughter relationship, and the following tension until Peter leaves the car. No doubt in my mind, best part of the film. There were many other potentially good bits of the film, but there was no payoff or earned emotional investment.
When Peter is having fun with the bank robbers, and all of a sudden that laser cuts up the convenience store thing across the street, there shouldn't have been any survivors, in my view, or there needed to be more situations like it in the film, with an escalating sense of danger.
One might then argue about when the ship is cut in half, but I didn't feel any tension whatsoever. The trailers showing Iron Man would save the day probably didn't help, but again, there were no injuries or deaths. No intensity to the situation.
There was an intensity to the Washington Monument scene, but I think it could have been done a lot quicker, he seemed to take forever to climb the thing. There was also intensity to the scene where he gets trapped in the truck,
but then nothing happened to him. Lots of being-built-up-only-to-be-let-down bits in this film
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Peter's relationship with the girl he idealised didn't feel remotely genuine, so when he kept letting her down, there wasn't the emotional depth to it, in my view.
No one seemed to show trauma in any part of the film for what they experienced. Maybe they're all in a denial phase or something, and it'll hit them in the sequel
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When Peter goes up against the Shocker after the homecoming dance thing, there was potential for tension there too, but as soon as Peter seems to be in danger, his friend arrives. *face palm* Never in any danger.
The final battle on the plane in the sky, I was struggling to see what was actually happening, as it was too flashy and sparky
and dark (iirc), especially when Vulture was using his wings to claw his way toward Peter, so there was no intensity for me there in a lot of it. Compare this to the (second?) Iron Man film with the plane scene, which I think had a lot more tension.
The bit where Peter pushes the debris off him is a lame pay off for the Stark advice earlier in the film. I felt it was corny as hell.
So yeah, what frustrates me is how much better the film could've been
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