I feel the need to further illustrate the point in my last post. The infamous Cloud sleeping "do you love me" scene.
So here we have what I myself and most logical people imagine the scene playing out as.
Pretty standard strained relationship situation.
Now let us imagine this a little differently. From say a PN POV.
"Holy stalker Batman".
As you can plainly see. One scenario makes sense. The other....less so. Case closed.
I have to say, I've been reading and approving (do you feel thankful, punk? well, do you?) your recent approach to some of the recent debate, and it's an angle that few who don't agree never consider - that the logic of the story can be discovered without the need for vasts amount of quotes from either side.
If one sits and looks at a scene, the first thing they need to do is decide on the possibilities then assess which possibilities carry plausibility in themselves and the greater whole. As has been said many times (Bella in particularly springs to mind on this one), the "other" perspective greatly stands on foundations built on singular moments that are viewed from a narrow perspective. Single events and narrow perspective are poor bedfellows, as they tend to merge to a point where one loses touch with simple common sense; one becomes so embroiled in what one wants to believe they lose the simple foundations found in human behaviour itself.
And this is where this post gets its props - it doesn't look to counter evidence, merely to unravel the common sense. And I think offering two simple angles on the same scene from a simple character perspective is a very good way of doing this. If the characters are not romantically involved - what does this say about the character? What does that reduce her emotions to becoming?
The most obvious one is a point I've seen Ryu and Null make time and time again (and I must confess to having made it a few times myself) - once we take away "game time" in FF7 and study the timeline, what makes most sense to Cloud's actions?
1: Cloud was helplessly in love with Aeris, mourned her death painfully and then immediately after the battle went to live with his childhood friend to raise a family ignoring the fact she's utterly infatuated with him for two years? (what a bastard - not just living with a girl who adores you knowingly, but allowing a family environment to build to really drive the knife in tight). Tifa watches Cloud sleep because she just can't get over the fact this wanker would indulge her (final) fantasy. Of course, in this version Tifa is also a bit of a wanker too - she knew Aeris loved Cloud and Cloud loves Aeris too yet jumped at the nearest chance to try set up her dream of a family with Cloud irrespective of the memory of her best friend.
2: Cloud cared for Aeris and likes Tifa, but has done nothing with Tifa. The chat under the Highwind was just about their past. They they lived together as friends in a family environment for two years raising a fostered kid and looking after their dear friends daughter. Tifa watches him sleep, because while they're just friends, she still wants more - and Cloud doesn't give it, but retains in this dynamic regardless of knowing this from their chat under the Highwind. Again, what a wanker. In this version we're not really sure what Aeris motivations are - given their relationship at 7th Heaven is at best, utterly unhealthy and really she'd really not want to be encouraging such an environment for kids, makes you wonder why she'd look at helping both of them, as inferred in Case of Tifa and AC. Surely best to try and break this mess up before the kids grow up as confused, sexually repressed serial killers.
3: Cloud had been in love with Tifa, his memories and feelings confused by a breakdown and the fingers of JENOVA, which were reawoken, confessed his feelings and went on to living with her straight after the final battle. Tifa is worried about him and their life together as he falls apart from the guilt of those he failed in the past. Both Cloud and Tifa cared for Aeris, but because there was no romantic love, neither had any issue about moving on as soon as they had found their feelings for each other. Aeris watches over them in a motherly way helping them at every turn, trying to encourage Cloud to move forward with confidence.
Now - which one of those is the most likely? Did the storytellers want any of the heroes - Cloud, Aeris or Tifa to be wankers?