Hoperai D: *just kidding Hope/Lightning fans* *Maybe* *Well almost just kidding* *But seriously no Lightning/Hope pls*
You know, I'm one of those who used to scream EWW NO every time that pairing came up; at least when we're talking the romantic, under-the-Highwind, communicating their feelings kinda relationship. (A romantic and sexual one for those who aren't following
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Originally I meant to just say "hey, let's not be hostile leading to Hoperai shippers feel like they're being booted out of the thread." But then I started thinking real life scenarios, because that's what I do when I spend too much time thinking of the possibility of a non-canon ship.
Say you're a 22 year old woman who knows a 15 year old man, because he's a friend of someone in your family (like your cousin), etc. Of course at this age, you don't look at him as a partner. Not only has his voice barely broken, but you're in that age yourself when you think you're extremely mature and need a boyfriend who are at least 3 years older. Plus it's totally unthinkable. He's a kid. You might play video games together, that's it. He's a kid.
Fast forward several years, you are now 30 years old, having dated and gone out with several guys, they've all turned out a disappointment. You can't seem to find what you're looking for. During the last years you've dated men around your age and older, and now most men your age have already settled down, and you're not yet interested in the "recycled" divorced ones with kids and an ex-wife which has to be involved in a lot of family life decisions (vacations, holidays, etc.)
Then you meet this guy again. He's no longer 15, he's 23. He walks like a man, he smells like a man, he's still quite childish and naive at some point, but no more than some of your male co-workers at your own age. For [x] reason you spend time with this dude and he gets to you, in a way. Something makes you take interest, and you feel bad about it, because we're talking a 7 year age gap. You brush it off, go on another date with a guy your age, but during the date you keep thinking you'd rather do [insert activity you did last time with him and friends] with the 23 year old. You
miss him.
People date with age differences all the time. Now here's the thing, I don't know if these were people who met when they were already at an age their relationship could actually be a real romantic one, or if it's just as normal that say a 20 year old guy knows a girl briefly from she's 13, of course doesn't see her as relationship material, then she turns 21 and all of a sudden it's different.
The point here is, if he gets with her when they're 28/21, he's not sleeping, or wants to sleep with the 13 year old. It's the grown up version he desires.
So going back to this 'Hoperai', Hope's lived through 10 years since their last encounter, when he was 14 and she was 21. He's now older than her. He's gained experience, led a company, etc. Using the real life example, I'd say:
If he starts falling in love with her now, it doesn't mean 14 year old Hope desired Lightning.
For Lightning though, the problem is for her, barely any time has passed since she last saw Hope as a 14 year old. She doesn't have the aid of the years passing. I guess the question is, does she still see him as a 14 year old, and is the premise for their communication still just friendship?
If I knew a 14 year old one day and the next day he came back all grown up, I don't know what I'd think. I'd certainly not fall in love with him on the spot. But at the same time, he's now
different.
So yeah, it might not be as unthinkable as I first thought.
I still wouldn't want it in the game though, because it would be too weird to change the premise of the tie between them at this stage. It was always about Lightning being his hero, and she saw Serah in him, in a way. She had to learn to let him take the lead and fight for himself, like she never did with Serah.