BlankBeat
Pro Adventurer
Here is the order of events with respect to the flower:I disagree about the dream scene being more canon, the hug with Tifa fits much better story wise.
Since it brings closure to the flower plotline that went through the entire game. Also you have Tifa telling Leslie in chapter 15 that his pedant means 'Reunion' while giving Cloud a smile. Which seems like a reference of her telling him that she looked up the meaning of the flower he gave her.
Also if the sewer scene is the tie breaker of which girl you get than that points towards Tifa too, since you get a actual dialog if you go for her first, when you pick Aerith in that scene she just says something like we have to go to sector 7. And a ton of other stuff but you get the idea
Aerith gives the flower to Cloud.
Whether or not Cloud gives it to Tifa, it still initially represents the reunion between “lovers” Cloud & Aerith.
Tifa has to inquire about the flower. Cloud doesn’t automatically give it to her without prompting.
Later, when Cloud interacts with the flower, he still associates it with Aerith:

Cloud doesn’t want to admit to Aerith that he gave the flower away.
After going to Aerith’s house, which is filled with flowers, Tifa confronts Cloud about the origin of the flower (ie: Aerith). As if she knows Cloud's heart is with Aerith.
Regardless of all of this, the automatic trophy for the "Budding Bodyguard" chapter is "Reunion":

In Japanese, the automatic trophy is titled "REUNION FLOWER."