I think this is protrayed even more in Rebirth we can see on how Aerith handles things or trauma - just let it pass and cover it with positive things. Its not her fault but that how she handles things that's why she's dragging Cloud into a lot of places. She's probably thinking that's how he will open up to her.
But it opposite Cloud's even more aloof with her ( I'm sure if I used the right term) on guard? He never sits by her side and never opens up to her unless she asked for it. ( this is 'soldier cloud' to think- what more on real Cloud
he have an even more issues and more aloof its gonna be a more burden for her )
- exactly we can see it eeven more in that 'last' date it horrible.
- this is the time that Cloud needed time to grieve properly as he is never given the chance to do that in Nibelheim
@insanehobbit who said this i forgot whose tread it is.
He may have wanted to move on and happy with Tifa but he needs to properly grieve first and this is the one he failed to do. He didnt know how.. you need to figure out this personally and Tifa cannot help him at this point because she's already have too much on her plate.
Sooo Cloud runs away ( to be fair on our protagonist this is mostly how he deals things remember? He hides his feelings since he was a child, deal with his issues on her own and isolate himself ) - Tifa knowing the vulnerability of this guy' she just allowed him.
ACC needs to happened because that will teach him there are things that 'just happened' and its not his fault. He needs to forgives himself and accept awful things just happened but he can 'take care of his family' today - just like how he promised marlene.
I agree with
@Rin communication should have solve this easily but we're not them and this is how they deal things. The result is always the good thing right? Cloti is always a slow burn - a damned slow one.