To any Cleriths who might be lurking, or actively seeking to start engaging here, know that I think I can assuredly say a lot of us would and do welcome you to come here and to have conversations. Actual conversations though.
We regularly have
@LunarTarotGirl and
@Maidenofwar actively engaging in all manner of dialogue and topics discussed here, and it would be lovely to have more people who love and enjoy Clerith to be able to come and join discussions.
Whether you perceive this thread to be skewed or toxic or not, at the end of the day this is one of the very few places I’ve personally found where healthy and respectful debate is not only encouraged, but actively preserved by all of us here. We want and desire these meaningful conversations, debates, and discussions.
And if any of you have taken the time to read through several pages back from the start of February 29th and even further back, you’d see that is exactly what has been taking place.
I’ve been around since that time and have found ourselves near always maintaining a respectful level of civility and fairness, whilst not tolerating anything that might unnecessarily derail the conversations that may be taking place or the nature of what we are looking for here, which is as I’ve said healthy discussion.
We’ve had our disagreements here. We’ve shared our personal insights that may not align with someone else’s. But we respectfully agree to disagree and choose to actually discuss our various readings further, without resorting to shooting each other down if we don’t like what someone else is saying,
as long as everything is being argued in good faith, with a clear and reasonable understanding that we aren’t just going to accept anyone coming in here and saying someone is wrong, and that they are right. What meaningful discussion arises from that?
And importantly there isn’t tolerance for bad faith arguments on either side here. There have been instances where those who favour Cloti haven’t been arguing in good faith, nor contributing anything meaningful to the discussion other than to be rude to others and not actually engage respectfully in disagreeing with them. And no one on here was going to put up with it. Same with any Cleriths or anyone who doesn’t even ship characters, if they come in and start to just be rude or dismissive without providing a reasonable argument then most here would be quick to try and resolve that.
There is a lot of evidence that when people do come here, they are quick to respect the fact that for hundreds of pages now, there has been a remarkable maintenance of this level of healthy respect. And we encourage everyone to understand that, and welcome everyone to help contribute in this way.
There is a lot of patience here in that respect. There can be a lot of worry or concern, anxiety expressed, and I am guilty of this myself and readily admit to finding myself caught in a very dooming state of mind from time to time. Which is why this place is a sanctuary for conversation. Because the large number of us here all choose to not only debate but to help each other come to different understandings, alternate viewpoints we may not have considered, even if we disagree, our appreciation of the game can be enriched from these insights from other people.
Fundamentally as well this is a place where, I think it’s safe to say, there is an appreciation for and love even for all of the characters being discussed here. That I think is essential in why the conversations here have been as dynamic and meaningful as they have been.