Oh don't worry. I have been a part of this fandom for 15 years. I am fully aware that the goalposts just get moved every time.
I still remember those Ultimania's coming out in 2010ish, where it listed couples in Final Fantasy games. And Cloud/Tifa were on those pages, along with Zidane/Garnet and Squall/Rinoa and a bunch of others. But no Cloud/Aerith. Everyone declared it over. So the goalposts just got moved. And for years it was repeated ad nauseum that "Cloud/Tifa need to kiss, or get married, or have biological children, or Square needs to hold a press conference and tell us." Despite MOST couples in the franchise not having any of those things either and others being semantics (they raise adopted children). Because Cloud and Tifa have always been the couple held to impossible standards.
And now he we fucking are. To be fair, Remake was sort of a 'reboot,' so I conceded deep down that it was always possible to go any direction the writers wanted it to go. And I know in Part 3, Cloud is going to have a couple of dream sequences with Aerith that are undoubtedly going to be misconstrued by shippers.
Let us hope the HA highwind scene isn't "optional." But I suppose if that happens the new talking point will be that he was somehow thinking of Aerith the entire time.
True, lol! There's no better way to describe the LTD than with 'the goalposts keep moving every time.'
Every once in a while, I remember that specific Ultimania you mentioned, and it all feels kind of silly that we're still debating it and calling it 'ambiguous' or that SE 'never confirmed anything' when, well... they clearly did. This led me to thinking that, in a sort of way, they're just making clear in the game, and for the wider audience, what they already confirmed a long time ago. I guess I was just not expecting them to be this direct tho
I have the same opinion about Remake as you did, that they could go any direction they wanted, and I made peace with it as long as they give us a definitive answer. Since it seems that
Aerith didn't get Great Gospel in Rebirth, that leads me to believe she will be around in part 3, and with that, the LTD stuff will probably be back again.
But part 3 is where Cloti should shine! That's where their most important scenes will happen. So hopefully, if done well (and being non-optional), we will get our definitive answer for real this time