What I mean is inventing scenarios to try and explain why two people in C/T's situation are not a couple. When the creators have supplied nothing of the sort in the compilation or the books etc.
Nothing I said was "invented", I was explaining how it could be a non-romantic situation based on what we can strictly say about it (ignoring the mutual feelings quotes etc, because remember, I'm trying to demonstrate the point that their cohabiting in itself is not as strong a point in favour of 'Cloti' as some people are trying to make out. I'm not trying to disprove the couple as canon).
Just wanna step in here **shoves Vendel aside for the moment**
Well hi there!
and say that's not the realistic and highly objective point of view. Logically, one would infer that a couple--especially one with Cloud and Tifa's history and compilations slamming home that Cloud has romantic interest in Tifa and she in him--would infer that said pairing is in a relationship and raising their family together. That's the objective and realistic view.
First, I want to clear up what I meant by objective. Maybe I'm using the wrong word but what I wrote is exactly what anyone who wants to strip the situation down to exactly what it 100% is would say. It's the same as if my laptop suddenly burst into flames, I would say 'it has burst into a blue flame and there's now a crack here, this key is missing, the right side is starting to melt a little more than the left' and so on. I have not drifted into 'flames would mean the laptop obviously got too hot on top of the air being quite dry and since the fan was making funny noises the day before it must be the cause of the laptop getting too hot due to poor air circulation around the components as it wasn't properly working' yada yada yada. I am not trying to explain the situation there or say what it could be infering, I'm simply stating exactly what it is, nothing more.
In order to reach the conclusion you outlined we're drawing from other sorces of informaiton about their relationship in order to decide that it is certainly, as you said,
infered they have a romantic relationship. But that's just it, them living together maybe further support but it's far from a main point and I don't believe it should be used as such as I've seen it used before, it simply doesn't stand up on its own.
Stating that it's "possible" for them to be simply co-habitants raising children is certainly within the realm of "real life" possibility (or other fictional works) as you've pointed out--but even you said it wasn't a common occurrence, and therefore, that alone negates it as being the "logical" assumption.
No, that's the thing, I was not trying to 'assume' anything. Since there are exceptions as you have agreed, I was, of course, taking this into consideration and hence I say it's 'possible' but not 100% known for certain either way. I am doing my best to be exact through my wording.
Maybe you're not clear on what objective means?
Let's just ask Wiktionary to save some breath.
Wiktionary.org said:
- Of or relating to a material object, actual existence or reality.
- Not influenced by the emotions or prejudices.
- Based on observed facts.
- (grammar) Of, or relating to a noun or pronoun used as the object of a verb.
As it stands now, in compilation, the logical, objective reasoning would be that Cloud and Tifa are in a relationship--romantic and complicated--raising an unconventional, non-traditional family.
Yeah, I'd call that a reasonable conclusion based on what we know. But again, we don't require 'Tifa and Cloud live together raising children' to come to it, it's simply cherries on top.
Sorry, but when people start throwing in "Yeah, but in REAL LIFE" I've seen this...[insert argument here] or I've read this [insert argument here] as a counter, the argument is lost. Even more so, when what's being pandered itself is far from the "realistic" POV they're trying to get across.
Well I guess that's the problem because there's never going to be a couple in real life or another fictional book who grew up next to a mako reactor, had their hometown burnt down, one got mako poisoned while the other worked in a bar, 4 years later met each other again only for the guy to be completely screwed up and so on. But some of us were just trying to make the point that living together, an everyday thing found in real life, does not always equal romance and so it doesn't necessarily completely an utterly mean it here either. That's it.
There are exceptions in life and literature, certainly, but you can't call them the realistic and objective expectations when you've already acknowledged they are NOT the commonality.
That's not what I called 'them'. The fact is that it is a possibility, a stupidly small possibility to you? Maybe, but it's that small possibility I will refuse to completely ignore. That's why I have worded things the way I have, it's the same way I would word observations and a conclusion of a chemistry experiment. I am being as exact as possible.