Re: Love Triangle Discussion
Been a little bit but I'll respond to the people who asked me questions:
I didn't respond to this thread to throw around "evidence" for either side of the argument. Like many times I've seen before, and yes, on both sides of the argument, people will usually over scrutinize, derail, find erroneous fault, and red herring the poster to the point where the responder has significantly felt the "ha- i gotcha" moment of pridefull glee and feels they have critically destroyed any credibility the poster could even muster. In manifesting these feelings, the responder usually will eventually give and fall away from logic and argumentative case, only to be filled with any demanding or demeaning catchphrases, anecdotes, or just plain insults. This ultimately leads to hatefilled speech and meaningless back and forth retorts which have absolutely nothing todo with the topic at hand.
No.. I came here to say the let enough be enough. Both sides are set in their ways, and these continual disdainful LTD topics usually find themselves to be the pit, the black sheep, the disgusting part of any forum community.
The LTD has been decided in people's individual minds... let it rest.
But if you do decide to continue down this argumentative path, Let me make one point (and I hope Hitoshura doesn't consider this too much off topic, and if so..i apologize.)
Arguing the LTD in this kind of matter is destructive to the game's reputation, inescapably harmful to the forum community in which it makes itself present, and takes away from the main concept of the purpose of FFVII: to enjoy.
I have no problems nor qualms suggesting that the LTD is destructive to the game's reputation. Its not unknown that this game has a reputation for being overrated and having a zelous rabid fanbase. I honestly believe that the LTD can incite such rabid fanboyism that outsiders can see us as crazy. WE look deeply into argumentative cases, note the consequentail or inconsequential motivations and thought processes behind elipses from a pixilated character.
We try and look for definitive answers in a medium that is bereft of them in the first place. We spew our faith and devotion over to other sites that care not for an answer, even times to places we aren;t looking for validation. I'm not saying the LTD is the main cause for the seemingly overrated reputation of FFVII, but the way people fanatically argue over it can lead people to believe its overeatted and its rich fanbase ridiculous and not credible.
Second, the LTD is nothing but harmful to the forum community in which it presents itself for two main reasons. The first reason is it angrily polarizes the community where it is not needed. As mentioned earlier, a poster, even an innocent poster, can come into an LTD debate simply wanting answers or to discuss, and find themselves ripped apart, insulted, and made to feel as a laughing stock bumbling idiot.
Why, after being treated such a way, would that poster want to ever again contribute, or even come back to a community that has treated him so. Over time, a forum community that allows this continuing behavoir will find itself devoid of large groups or participators, fan bases, or forum posters because who would want to continually be insulted? And all of that over an over talked about, inconsequential 1 forum topic?
Secondly, The LTD gives rise and credence to the age old internet equation: Anonymity + Audience= Total F*ckwad. I think this is self evident. You've all seen it... blind insults, insults used to try and further individual points, puns and allegories which only serve for the poster to feel intelligent and the " ah.. gotcha", you have even seen it in this particular forum topic. The LTD attracts these people like flies. They are the ones who create the most polarization, who harm the reputation the most.
Finally, FFVII is a game meant to enjoy, not a game to get all fired about about your views and insult those different than you. People, I believe, naturally want to come to a game forum to express and find commonalities, discuss and understand different viewpoints, and overall further enrich their gaming experiences... not come here and fight and be insulted.
So please, as a forum community, if you want to discuss the LTD, if you want to educate, educate people on how you see it.. listen to their sides, maybe you'll find something about the game you never saw or paid attention to before. Make this a topic of fun and enriching the gaming experience.. not about which side you believe to be correct, and not about proving a story.
So.. with that.. if anyone wants to respond to me.. here's what you can do:
1. agree with me, that the LTD discussion in this form is harmful, and discuss ways to not make it so
2. Disagree with me and say the LTD in this argumentative way is helpful.
3. Pick apart my argument, insult me and my common sense to try and give validation to your point, throw inarguable off topic points to try and discredit me, and let the shit continue to fly on an old beaten to death horse.
So please.. lets do 1 or 2.. I'd like to discuss my views, and I'm sure others would to, and no.. my veiw point is not Cleris.