The Love Triangle Debate: Another Turn in the Cycle

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Roger

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I thought Cloud had been staying with Tifa for, like, a couple of months before the game had even started.

Wedge, Biggs and Jessie were all living in Seventh Heaven and not one of them had even caught his name yet. The fact that months passed between Tifa meeting Cloud again and the mission to destroy Mako Reactor 1 is what demands that he was staying somewhere else.

You act as though Cloud and Tifa decided to form a family together, had two children, and moved to a house with a white picket fence. If that happened, it *WOULD* be an indication of a romantic relationship. Unfortunately, that's not what happened. Cloud, Tifa, *AND* Barret decided to form a family together and re-establish Seventh Heaven. Barret helped form this family and helped with the re-building of Seventh Heaven. After Barret helped form this family and re-build Seventh Heaven, he went away.

"After visiting various locations with Tifa and Barret, Tifa opened the “Seventh Heaven” bar. Before setting off on a journey, Barret left Marlene in Cloud and Tifa’s care, and the three of them began living together." ~FFVII 10th Anniversary Ultimania Cloud Strife Profile

The three of them [Cloud, Tifa, Marlene] began living as a family because Barret left. If Barren't hadn't left, all four of them would have been living together as a family.

Stop making it seem as though Cloud and Tifa got married, found the perfect little house in suburbia, and then adopted children. As much as you wish that happened... it didn't :no:

If Nomura has "no clue" if they are in a relationship, and if SE decided to provide Cloud a place to sleep in his room, there is no way you can be certain they are in a romantic relationship.

Can you please stop mentioning it that way? We all know he has, at least, a clue. I find it highly doubtful he'd go into directing without any idea what kind of relationship Cloud and Tifa have.

And yeah Barret was there. Barret is not the reason Cloud stayed with them when all others left. And Cloud had all of four conversations with Marlene.

My point is that Cloud visited Aerith's Church before having geostigma. Why did he do so?

It's such common knowledge that Cloud had feelings for Aerith, people even make jokes about it.

I don't deny that he had feelings about Aerith. Nobody is. He's not dead on the inside. You don't need to be someone's and only true love for them to have feelings about you. Cloud is even more vocally distraught over Zack's death in AC, even talking to his tombstone about his guilt before any of really crazy stuff started happening.

"First off, there’s the premise that things won’t go well between Tifa and Cloud, and that even without Geostigma or Sephiroth this might be the same."
~Nojima

So, obviously the issues between Cloud and Tifa are not solely a result of Geostigma or Sephiroth. We can also see that when observing CoT and FFVII.

(And yes, I know he uses the word "might" -- but come on, let's just be honest here.)

Bottom line: what is the proof Cloud and Tifa sorted through their problems? To me, it appears as though they haven't and aren't in a committed relationship. Any evidence that they've sorted through their problems...?

Let's be honest about what??? He uses might because he means might. He's the guy that'll probaby write any subsequent novels and he's wisely reserving te right to go whatever the direction on the issue. Look at the crazy mood he was in writing Eternal Cost. That could've been Cloud and Aerith and Tifa, if SE wasn't pussing out on completing the Compilation. It still might be one day.
 

The Twilight Mexican

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"First off, there’s the premise that things won’t go well between Tifa and Cloud, and that even without Geostigma or Sephiroth this might be the same." ~Nojima

So, obviously the issues between Cloud and Tifa are not solely a result of Geostigma or Sephiroth. We can also see that when observing CoT and FFVII.

He's probably referring to their general fucked-up-ness and difficulty communicating their feelings. Possibly Cloud's guilty burden too.

Why is this being brought up, though? I feel like this thread is quickly moving into "throw quotes at one another" territory again.

I'm not seeing how the issues between Cloud and Tifa relate to your disagreement with Minato about whether Nojima was trying to suggest that Cloud and Aerith would have fewer problems. Particularly since he said they would have problems too, and since we all know Cloud is fucked up. They would have had problems with or without Sephiroth and geostigma too.

Moral of the story: If Cloud's in a relationship, there's going to be problems. If Tifa is in a relationship, there's going to be problems. Aerith too. Let's move on. :monster:

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Bottom line: what is the proof Cloud and Tifa sorted through their problems? To me, it appears as though they haven't and aren't in a committed relationship. Any evidence that they've sorted through their problems...?

I'm not sure what you're asking for here either. It's not like they'll never, ever have a disagreement, even if all the major things are sorted out (which they do appear to be, at least for right now).

We know Cloud goes home, we know AC and The Kids Are Alright leave us with a "positive new direction" feeling, we know Cloud and Tifa were able to honestly voice their feelings about the things that were bothering them, and we know they still live together one year after AC during DC after voicing those feelings.

As in real life, there's no promise of things staying good, but that's not requisite for having a committed relationship today or things being sorted out today. Problems they have today can be sorted out and a new set of problems exist ten years down the road. Or maybe none. That's the uncertainty of sharing your life with someone else.

You both have your own thoughts, ambitions, fears, hang-ups, quirks, pet peeves, etc., and somewhere along the line, something's not going to mesh. That's just life in the world.

My wife and I got along wonderfully for three and a half years. We're now separated (since early November). Even now, we get along wonderfully. We just want different things and will have to pursue them separately. That's life.

While together, we didn't have too many problems to sort out, though we did from time to time. We argued, and we made up. We were obstinate, and we compromised. That things didn't work out for the long term doesn't mean we weren't in a committed relationship before, nor that we didn't sort things out while we were together.

Separating now was actually curtailing what were going to become major problems within the next few years (I was ready to buy a house, she decided she wasn't; I want kids, she decided she doesn't) before they could become problems and drive a wedge. We were able to separate with love and respect for one another, and that we aren't together now doesn't erase what we shared.

I got off track a little there, so, coming back around, I'm not sure what you're asking for. What are you asking for?

I'm rather confused about the end goal to all this debate.

I don't know either anymore. We're all agreeing that Cloud loved both of these women, that Cloud and Tifa have some sort of domestic relationship and that we'll never know what would have happened if Aerith had lived. I don't know what else there is to argue.

There's no point in trying to figure out whether Cloud and Aerith would have got along better, if that's where we are now. It's fun to speculate, but that's all it can ever be.

If someone thinks so, great. If someone else doesn't, great. We don't know either way. We'll never know. Even the writer doesn't know. Every other sentence in the (in)famous Nojima Statement includes "might," "could" or "maybe." Nobody knows and nobody will ever know.

We're all in agreement on the important stuff (one might even say "we sorted out our problems" :awesome:), and that's good enough for me.

Wedge, Biggs and Jessie were all living in Seventh Heaven and not one of them had even caught his name yet. The fact that months passed between Tifa meeting Cloud again and the mission to destroy Mako Reactor 1 is what demands that he was staying somewhere else.

Where else would Tifa keep him, though?

I think the "Didn't catch your name" thing is just supposed to be a narrative mechanic for giving his name to the player. Or it means Biggs doesn't pay attention (even though he knew enough about Cloud to know he "used to be in SOLDIER"). Take your pick. :monster:

Minato said:
Can you please stop mentioning it that way? We all know he has, at least, a clue. I find it highly doubtful he'd go into directing without any idea what kind of relationship Cloud and Tifa have.

Even more relevant than that, the quote really means he doesn't personally care. He absolutely has a clue (in another quote, he says the movie shows what their relationship is).
 

T@ctic

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yo Beat i only have a couple things to say since school is really taking its toll on my back these past few weeks, plus you must have a ton of people to reply to, so ill make this short.

I've heard all these counterarguments before...

The room lacks furnishing.
The bed doesn't look comfortable.
The bed lacks sheets.

All of the counterarguments are irrelevant because at the end of the day... IT. IS. A. PLACE. TO. SLEEP.

i think cloud is sane and smart enough to realize if something isnt comfortable or not, and we can both be sure that when he just had spent the entire day working his behind off on deliveries and whatnot and is now really tired, do you honestly think he'll have the lovely idea in his mind of meeting his head to the pillow of a terribly cold, small, barely-even-sit-worthy-bed?

but you are right, in a way. it is in a place to sleep.

but not a place for cloud to sleep.

just like how a flower is entirely edible, but would anyone want to chow down on a nice juicy suculant rose?

SE has shown us that Cloud has a place to sleep in a room that is his designed space. That's the point. There's no reason for SE to include this except to tell us that Cloud sleeps there. Alone.

i really, really doubt that nomura was directing AC/CC and was looking over the half second scene of tifa answering the phone and shouted, "WAIT! We need to show that Cloud sleeps alone. Add a bed in there" anymore than he would say, "WAIT! We need to show that Cloud sleeps in the same bed as Tifa. Put that in there."

its a room that has a bed (a very lonely, sad, unfit one at that for even Cloud's tastes) in it. in all honesty the room would look even more pathetic without it. what use would S/E have to show cloud's sleep nests? to take out the time to point a finger "SEE! He sleeps alone/with Tifa!".

they dont care about him that much :/

and here's a question that Fairheartstrife has asked.

We see Cloud's bed; we see the children's beds; but we don't see Tifa's. Considering we don't see Tifa's, does that mean she sleeps on him on that awful ugly bed?

well? does that make sense?

and as for cloud sleeping alone...this is officially NOT up for interpretation. now, im sure you have read this quote millions of times...but i dont think i have seen this argument so far on all the LTDs i've read on here.

After making certain that Cloud was asleep, she spoke to him.

“We’ll be all right, won’t we?”

Of course, there was no answer. I only heard the sound of him sleeping. I wondered if the fact that he was sleeping here meant that he was part of the family.

“Do you love me?”

Cloud woke up, a perplexed look on his face.


she could calulate exactly when he would fall asleep, and then she could hear him breathing. and it's not like you could argue "Oh well it could be snoring, and snoring can be heard from lots of feet away." it wouldnt make sense to receive that as snoring since that wouldnt be the appropriate word for it. snoring is snoring. yet that word isnt in the entire book (i think in like the entire book compilation). i even chucked out my collection version and it said she could hear him breathing softly.

there is no way on Gaia she is hearing his breathing - soft at that - unless she is very close to his body. there's just no way. iv'e even tried it out myself. i tried out my creepy stalker skillz on one of my siblings when they were sleeping, and i was just 5 feet away from them, yet i couldnt hear their breathing rate. then i got closer, 4 feet. 3 feet. 23 inches (measured myself) i almost had to be touching noses with them to hear their breathing. dont just think its a personal experience. go ahead a try it yourself. unless someone is snoring, you have to be really close to someone to hear what tifa heard.

also, cloud isnt reacting in anyway of a person who just found out a friend was in their bed - or very close to them. what happens - quite literally - in this scene is he wakes up, talks, then goes back to sleep. there is no "What- What're YOU doing here?!" reaction.

you know, ive read squall's argument a million times, but now i finally funny understand, and he's right - cloud would be a huge jerk to just leave her hanging, indicating for her to leave the room, dismissing her like that. really buttheaded of him.

so like i have said, tifa is being able to hear his breathing, it is heavily implied that she has been doing this a long time because she could calculate when he would go into sleep (which would indicate closeness more than 23 inches near the body), him simply opening his eyes, replying, and going back to sleep. he doesnt even panic at her voice being in the room. if you say he sleeps alone, wouldnt he be a little surprised to hear her voice in his room suddenly? be yet hes talking to her like its normal. he just doesnt understand what she means by the question. he's bewildered. that's pretty much it.


wouldnt you think at how awkward cloud is all the time he would at least jump/fall out of bed (given the fact that tifa is close to him because of his sleeping being heard by her) if she was there?


yet there is nothing that even hints that.

FPS she can hear him breathing softly. what more do we need?

Bottom line: according to SE, Cloud and Aerith developed a "special bond" and Cloud admits to thinking about Aerith "a lot" during disc 2. Cloud's desire to re-connect with Aerith at the end of Final Fantasy VII tells us their connection is a truly remarkable one.

i dont think anyone is denying or pushing away the fact (yes, the FACT) that cloud and aerith have a special (powerful even) bond. it's been said millions of times, cloud was attracted to her. she was a love interest FPS. he was curious - or interested - in her romantically. they are simply asking when and how has aerith moved past attraction to in loveness. thats what the LTD challenges.

to be fair, K Rowling said that harry and hermione shared something "extremely intense" and formed a "paticular bond" in book 7 - she even called their moments charged. it was something, and it was growing. but it got stopped (not bringing spoilers in here). but that bond and special feelings are still there. they just didnt have time to work them out and realise what they were entirely. Rowling even said it was a bond and feelings ron couldnt - and wouldnt- get into; it was for for those two. so i understand - i really do - what you mean by special bond. tifa cannot, will not, and does not get into the feelings with cloud and aerith. she understands cloud will feel what he feels about aerith - and even he doesnt know what those feelings are.

but we're going to need more than special bond. really. it can be seen as romantic and there's nothing wrong, with that, but at best its ambiguous.


I agree. If Aerith had lived, I firmly believe the HA Highwind scene wouldn't have happened and Cloud would have most certainly ended up with Aerith.

FPS it did happen! its almost directly after the LS scene, one of the most important parts of cloud's life (not because he lurves tifa, but he gets his memories back, and his memories are in lurve with tifa :monster:)

which brings me to the last of my post.

what do you think of cloud's heart of calling to tifa in the LS? aerith was in the LS at the point (i think) and yet he didnt call for her or both women. he called for tifa. what's your view on that? that's my honest N.O. question.
 

Roger

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Where else would Tifa keep him, though?
I don't think Tifa kept him anywhere, he probably just worked as a merc out of an inn or something. Midgar is a big place, we've barely seen a third of it so far, could be all kinds of places he might stay and find work. And yeah, the dialogue was for the sake of exposition but it is canon. until we read about Cloud sleeping on the floor right next to these people and share drinks with them day in day out for two months while the realisation that this unknown stranger has been wearing a Shinra uniform the entire time slowly gathers at the edge of Jessie's awareness, I'm gonna assume otherwise.

Seventh Heaven was never Cloud's home. The idea that this is where decided to live because that's where AVALANCHE always lived does not hold up. He is there specifically to be with Barret/Tifa/Marlene.
 

The Twilight Mexican

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I feel like that would have been mentioned somewhere. What little info we've been given points to Tifa taking him in -- for example, in her 10th AU profile:

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She was reunited with Cloud again at the Sector 7 Slum Station. However, feeling that his speech and conduct were strange, she invited him into AVALANCHE so that she could keep an eye on his condition for a while.
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I agree that it doesn't entirely make sense, but it makes more sense than that she let Cloud wander off while recovering from mako poisoning.
 

Shadowfox

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He's probably referring to their general fucked-up-ness and difficulty communicating their feelings. Possibly Cloud's guilty burden too.

I think Cloud's guilt is what he was mainly referring to. Take away Sephiroth and Geostigma, and we'd still see Cloud having to deal with his helplessness in preventing Aerith's and Zack's deaths, the roles he might have played in both their demises, and his weakness of spirit that allowed Sephiroth to have gained the power to put the planet in jeopardy.

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As for where Cloud had been staying prior to the reactor mission at the start of the game, my thoughts are that he'd been staying with Tifa to recover. And seeing how aloof and taciturn he was at the start of the game, I didn't see it as too big a leap that he hadn't given his name out to anyone else.
 
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Dashell

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Yep, quotes are going to be thrown at one another... here's a good one:

"It's Cloud and Tifa, it's always been Cloud and Tifa and wil always be Cloud and Tifa!" - Nojima, 2007 magazine thing :awesome:


also lol @ "where would Tifa keep him?"... he sounds likea pet now XD
 

Roger

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Minato
I feel like that would have been mentioned somewhere. What little info we've been given points to Tifa taking him in -- for example, in her 10th AU profile:

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She was reunited with Cloud again at the Sector 7 Slum Station. However, feeling that his speech and conduct were strange, she invited him into AVALANCHE so that she could keep an eye on his condition for a while.
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I agree that it doesn't entirely make sense, but it makes more sense than that she let Cloud wander off while recovering from mako poisoning.

She felt he acted strange, she did not know he was genuinely sick. The moment Tifa said a word to him Cloud got up and started swinging his sword around like it ain't no thing.
 

Skan

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I've actually always been a little bit confused about the extent to which Cloud knew about his own problems. He acts like he's fine and normal most of the times and doesn't really show much awareness of nor reactions to his mental freakouts. Like, whenever the screen whites out, he just gets back up and goes back to acting normal? Plus, he admitted to Tifa during Sephiroth's ultimate mindfuck that there are a lot of gaps in his memories and that he sometimes doesn't know himself, but ... honestly, it seems that Tifa is way more freaked out by Cloud's episodes than Cloud himself is, which is bizarre when you think about it. If I knew something was wrong with my memory, and if I knew I was having periodic seizures, I would be freaked out as fuck.
 

Shadowfox

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Perhaps it was the strengths of his delusions that have allowed him to continue as if nothing was wrong. I mean, as far as Cloud was concerned, his back story made sense. It may even be that he wasn't aware that he was having the whiteouts, or if he was, he might have reasoned some of it away as Sephiroth's fault.

Later in the game, like at the crater, when Sephiroth is really piling on the pressure, I get the feeling that it's mostly blind, desperate hope that keeps Cloud going. Until he gets to the point where he can't run away from the fact that he isn't who he says (hopes? wishes?) he is.
 

The Twilight Mexican

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I feel like he must have made himself forget most of his episodes as they took place -- seeing himself in the Honey Bee Inn, when he speaks to himself during sleep, etc. His mind must have been working to fill in these gaps, like when Aerith asks him what rank he was in SOLDIER. There was a brief gap, then he filled it in, kept talking and probably forgot about the gap.
 

looneymoon

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Cloud/Tifa being on a break during Advent Children time makes a lot of sense imo.

and by break I mean the "Cloud comes home drunk after a 3am trip to the Honey Bee Inn" type of break.

I'm not sure if people understand that even though Cloud/Tifa are canon, that doesn't mean they aren't dark. I think it's safe to say that they're the most down to earth and therefore depressing main couple of the franchise.
 

Ryushikaze

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Cloud going to the Honey Bee Inn or anything like that with intent to be a customer doesn't fit the boy. Even if he wanted to go, I figure he'd over think the whole damn thing and not go.
 

looneymoon

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I also really find the whole emotionally scarred argument as a means of justifying sexual/emotional fidelity as really weird and uncomfortable. But I that Tres gets that my example wasn't entirely literal and slightly irreverent.
 

Ryushikaze

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Tim, Ryu
I think you may have misunderstood Rishi there. =P

I don't think she was legitimately suggesting the idea. I was trying to comment that Cloud is such a socially awkward dork that he'd take forever to work up the nerve, if he ever did it at all.

I also really find the whole emotionally scarred argument as a means of justifying sexual/emotional fidelity as really weird and uncomfortable. But I that Tres gets that my example wasn't entirely literal and slightly irreverent.

Well, I wasn't trying to argue "Because Cloud is awkward/ emotionally scarred, therefore he would stay with Tifa even if he didn't want to" but rather commenting "If he wanted to do something of the sort, he'd probably screw it up with his derpitude."

I've talked about Cloud's showing all the symptoms of PTSD before, but it's also entirely likely Tifa and for that matter Aerith would have that too, given their childhoods. Two people with PTSD together can be really healing for both, or it can be really hell if one or both get stuck in their disorder and its manifestations.

This thread is now about the undiagnosed disorders of the FFVII extended cast.
 

Strangelove

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a grown man who is buttoned-up and reserved, and who interacts with the world using a childish robot animal with a funny accent

he's the fuckedest up of them all
 

Octo

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The whole of FFVII is actually Reeves dream :monster:
 

Kittie

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The whole of FFVII is actually Reeves dream :monster:

Thanks, Octo! Because of this, I now have a vivid, mental image of Reeve actually being "The Man Behind the Curtain." He is an inventor, after all. :monster: But still, FFVII being Reeve's dream...I really want that to be my headcanon now.
 
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