Something I've been wondering: does Cloud actually matter in these debates? Like, do people actually care about him and who the better partner for him is, or is he just the artifice through which people squabble over who the "best girl" is? Just curious what some of you think.
If you want the real answer, yes he matters. I'm of the opinion the "it's ambiguous" problem arises not just because of the date mechanic that uses player choice in the OG (Remake is different), but because his character and arc are meta in nature. If the player wants the answer to how Cloud actually feels, they have to recognize that and separate themselves from him.
What do I mean when I say Cloud and his arc are "meta?" The OG is a role playing game where the player--a normal person--role plays as the hero, who himself is role playing as a hero and in reality was just another normal person. He achieves this by misremembering and constructing a fantasy about himself and if the player takes the stance that Cloud isn't in love with Tifa (note: this has nothing to do with Aerith), they have to misremember and construct a fantasy about the Lifestream sequence, which itself was about remembering the truth and unraveling the fantasy. The answer to this all comes in the Highwind scene. Without going more into the OG (because this thread is about the Remake), if the player got the low affection version, they either chose the break the illusion of the fantasy by accruing more affection points with Tifa on a second play-through and get the high affection version (it's about Cloud recognizing Tifa's voice and not reverting to the cold, SOLDIER-persona). Or they do not. Again, this is something the should probably go in the thread for the OG.
My point is some people play video games to play the role of someone who is not only not them, but of a badass power fantasy. They want it that way intentionally (this is why the Xbox is popular with young males, imo). Or they're a sucker for the whole Jack x Rose fated romance thing and the rest of the story is unimportant to them after that. But if Cloud himself is to actually matter in this discussion, those things need to be let go of and the aim needs to be to fully break Cloud from the illusion.
Note: Sorry this is my first post here. I've been lurking around, reading other's thoughts on the Remake, comparing them to my own. I actually hate this particular discussion because it always turns toxic. I'm gonna focus on posting elsewhere.