This feels disingenuous to me. You seem to be saying that someone can't love and value more than one person, and that prioritizing one over the other completely invalidates any relationship with the other. And to be frank, that's not a great view to have.
Also, why do so many people react as if Aerith knows she's dying at the dream date? In the OG it's made clear Aerith did
not go nobly and willingly to her death. She wanted to live. She thought she could make it through this. Re-Aerith lost her knowledge of the future. Even if she still senses her death in advance, it seems to me she should want to live, to think that this time she could make it. An intentional heroic sacrifice lacks some of the tragedy of Aerith's sudden and arguably pointless murder (c'mon Sephiroth you didn't even prevent Holy). Of course the whole end of this game has ruined that sense of tragedy for plenty of people already, so I obviously could be reading this wrong.
Ok, so what I read into the above is in fact
exactly what you're saying. That's certainly a take to have. So if I'm dying and choose to spend my last moments with Clicky (mother of my children for those who don't know me), does that mean my best friend is effectively meaningless to me? If I spend those last moments with my daughter does it invalidate my feelings about her mother? No, obviously. I'm gonna give you the benefit of the doubt that this argument has gotten away from you a little, cause otherwise this'd be a dick move to say.
I still don't disagree with this part