Can I ask though, why do you just "not hate" Cloti? Why don't you love it?
I've always been able to understand liking Aerith, and I've been able to understand liking the story potential of a Clerith romance IF the story were done differently and Tifa and Zack and all the issues we discuss here weren't a thing.
Basically I get the idea that "if things had gone very differently Clerith could have been a pretty good story".
But things didn't go differently, and I just don't why anyone would wish for Clerith to be a thing when things like Zack being shown to be devotedly trying to get back to Aerith and just being THE BEST, or Tifa and Cloud having an absolutely heartwarming romance, are right there.
Why would anyone who likes Aerith and Cloud want them to be in love if that means they're essentially both miserable since Aerith is dead?
And why on earth would anyone not LOVE Cloti when Cloud and Tifa together are as adorable as they are, and with the story of Cloud and Tifa being as good as it is? I just don't get how a fan of any character, or even a fan of any specific bond between two characters, would want Clerith to be canon, since I'd argue that even the bond between Aerith and Cloud feels less special if it's a romance.
To be clear my feelings towards CT have nothing to do with canon. The following however will answer the question for the curious. It's basically preference.
Preference that is separate from everything else as it should be. Because in argumentation we are supposed to leave them out for a non biased perspective. It's fandom that often conflates them:
But here it is my feelings toward CT not fact, not argument, just feelings:
I had a whole blog post on this but to put it simply I don't care as much for couples when it's obvious they're going to end up together. It's obvious CT will end up together
Also if something is too familiar to me I lose interest. I'm an anime fan so osanajimi romance is nothing new to me. Tale as old as time. I'm an introvert as is my husband so seeing two introverts getting together is just.... My life. Nothing really groundbreaking. The Lifestream scene where Tifa goes into his mind? I'm an Evangelion fan and I've seen similar with the whole Carl Jung persona memories true self being unlocked thing. Jungian psychology stuff in media is my jam but I've seen it. Many times. And FF7 is influenced by Evangelion there are literally scenes that play homage to it. So to me it's not as unique as to others. Even when I was 16 it didn't really strike me as a favorite scene. It's a very beautiful one but
I don't know. It didn't grab me.
I don't seek out media to be relatable to me but to show me things I wouldn't normally see. Cloti is very sweet but it's also very mundane. I enjoy fanfiction of them, there are several fanfics that are my favorite but they're usually post Advent Children domestic related or an AU that continues from childhood on. I love their dynamic in childhood I love the water tower scene and to explore what could have been had Nibelhiem not burned down etc is interesting to me. I like them in AU like in Dissidia duodecim. I enjoy exploring the parts Nojima did not show me.
But what's currently there in the story was never enough to keep my attention I'm sorry. I like them a lot better in Rebirth though. I agree it's adorable and I don't think it's bad or boring but for me who has been in so many fandoms has seen hundreds of childhood romances and shipped hundreds of characters I'm gonna need more than that to stay invested in the long run.
I also can't stand when a guy is all about a girl in any media and Mr. Strife is unfortunately that way by design.
I put it like this on my blog I do technically "ship them" in a sense, in fanon and I like them enough. I like art of them I think their scenes are nice.
My favorite motif of them is the starry sky. I'm just not a Cloti and I don't think I will ever be.
They just aren't my favorite.
Like to put it with an anaology:
I love teal. It's my favorite color. I also like yellow it's very nice. It's pretty, I don't hate it. But if you give me yellow I won't be upset but my reaction will not be excited because my favorite color is teal.
I have synesthesia too so I can say Cloti is in many cases that yellow for me.
I don't want to bash your ship and I know you love it but just because we love something doesn't mean others will. The story is the story and dev intent is dev intent and nothing is wrong with CT. And nothing about my preferences makes it a bad story. Nothing about anyone's preferences makes other's preferences bad either. Nor does it make a story badly written. Yes it's a beautiful story. I can appreciate it as that.
And maybe that's the problem with LTD. People have grabbed on to their preference and personal feelings so they don't want to look at the story as is. I don't think my preferences have anything to do in a discussion about canon but I see how they can be conflated and are often conflated.
To me they're very seperate. I compartmentalize them very far apart. I think everyone should.
But para los gustos se hicieron los colores for our tastes colors were invented.
And at the end of the day regardless I can't change that my favorite color is still teal.
Edit: Elaboration on the division between talking about canon vs. preference.